Updated 3/2023: I love to pleasure my lovers orally, lick armpits, suck nipples, finger clit and sacred spot, and eat pussy! I get so turned on by their pleasure, worship their body asking me to do it again over and over! For me this has become my apex turn-on. I am a very sexual, sensual, and affectionate man who is seeking a woman or transgender person for e-mail chat and possible meeting for more. Presently. I am in a marriage with a partner who suffers from depression and is not able to enjoy sharing bodily pleasures due to physical ailments. I am expanding in my sexual expression toward toys and role playing, and she is not interested. Special connection through frequent sexual arousal and play is absent from our relationship. I feel a void in my life that I would like to fill with a special friend or friends. I am physically fit, active, intelligent and playful. I am very experienced sexually and would like to share my enjoyment of physical play with someone who also enjoys it. I give a nice massage, love to touch and am very tactile in my senses. I have a serious daily yoga practice and am very flexible in bed. I am involved with the Tantra community and know the arts of Tantric lovemaking. :) Wrestling, rolling around, playing with sex toys and laughing, with a fit, active, lively lover is what I imagine a lot. I enjoy giving passionate oral and g-spot/prostate massage to bring you to fantastic orgasm! I love receiving anal and well as giving! I enjoy hiking, bicycling, camping out in the woods, skiing, golf, and working out. I also like music, jazz and classical, plays, opera, dance. I travel a lot.....................So I would be able to meet on a prearranged daytime rendezvous or even a weekend for companionship My Ideal Per I'd like to meet a woman or transgender person who is/are confident in mind, body and spirit, who is constantly improving herself or themselves, who is assertive, who has a large sexual appetite, and who sometimes likes to take the lead mentally, physically and sexually. Since I am now committed to my marriage, and that will not likely change, that special woman or trans person would have a similar life situation to balance us. In essence, I am seeking a friend with benefits, who can be discreet. We might have needs to fill for each other, like a lacking relationship, busy life in need of some fun or family stress to steal away from occasionally. Fitness is important to me to be able to share a lot of the activities I love. I would like to experience a woman or trans who I will be nurtured and physically adored by and who I will nurture and adore. I enjoy a partner who likes to lose themselves in a sensual and sexual connection for hours at a time. That might be a walk on the beach, a hike in the woods, dancing to music, or just plain cuddling to precede our sexual pleasure.

My Ideal Person Update 3/2023: While I love to pleasure others sexually, I'm seeking a very sexual person who enjoys regular rendezvous for intimate time. That person needs to know that this would be a FWB NSA friendship, where there is still some commitment between us to keep our pleasure connection going. That includes conversation, emotional support, and physical outdoors activities between sexual time.

I have been thinking about being with a couple (two female persons), since I cannot commit to a partnership. I am finding that FWB/NSA is there, but that since I am married, there is the concern about my partner. I still open to one special intimate friend, and just feel a couple might work better. Plus I've never been with a couple! I thought about "poly", but that seems to be very specific to groups where all participate, and since my wife is not interested, that does not work. So the ideal would be a couple who are committed to each other and who would like to have a me as a playmate who would come over occasionally for fun to spice up their lives and mine. I would also feel good that if I had to stop coming, that a couple will have each other. I hope this arrangement will be better since I am married, in an open relationship, where I am the solo participant in the open part.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Rush, Chick Corea, Frank Zappa, Devo, Sibelius

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Leather, Latex, Massage, Tantric sex, Sex outside

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really, maybe when I was 12!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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