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testimonials - 7/30/2008

I couldn't seem to find this in the help. Are standard members not able to leave testimonials.

12 response(s), 7 votes
tazzerman2000 59 M
3  questions
Women and bisexual guys. - 7/30/2008

Why are some women afraid or 'not into' bisexual guys? I've ran across this a number of times now where I'll intro myself to a girl who says she's open, looking to try 'new things' etc but once I tell her I'm bisexual it's so long, cya later, not into bi-guys.

Now, I AM bisexual but I definitely 'lean' more so to towards the ladies and certainly, if I'm with a woman who's not into that ...

15 response(s), 22 votes
rm_buddaluv67 49 M
8  questions
weight training - 7/30/2008

I am an active man who works out regularly (martial arts, push-ups, road biking, xc skiing). I am interested in increasing the amount of weight training in my routine. I would like to add some mass to my shoulders.

The advice I'd like is about how to avoid injury (especially at age 40) and diet. I am patient and do not expect to see results soon, but rather gradually. The idea of ...

10 response(s), 7 votes
rm_rossii_40 53 C
1  question
what's it called? - 7/29/2008

We were wondering what would you call a night of sex in a room full of naked people, some of them watching and fucking their partners only and the other half fucking everyone else? Were blown away this past week end at a sgwrs club by the spectacle in front of our eyes where babes were fucking their men's brains out, the strong smell of sex in the air, sweaty bodies all around, women asking for ...

34 response(s), 28 votes
rm_BM1S90 34 M
3  questions
Profile Question - 7/29/2008

I just have a quick question.

How does one change the "mood" at the top of their profile?

Ive been looking and cant find how to change this.

Thanks

13 response(s), 13 votes
rm_sexyvoize 47 F
14  questions
~ afraid to play ! ~ - 7/29/2008

i've got guys whom i chat with from this site asking about me being promiscuous ..

they wanna know how many guys i've met & have i had sex with all of them ..

during the course of our chat .. i've come to realise there are guys out there who are afraid to play ..

i'm surprised because this 'afraid to play' remark came from guys who are on an adult site ...

26 response(s), 42 votes
wood4fire20 45 M
6  questions
Friends with benefits - 7/29/2008

An ex of mine just recently asked me to have sex with her, "Friends with benefits" as she said. Have any of you ever done this? How risky is it?

12 response(s), 16 votes
douneedmassage 42 M
3  questions
opening photo's - 7/29/2008

Hi all, Is there anyone who could help me, I've had some hot sessions on cam stroking my cock and being helped along with some encouragement by some lovely members who have sent me photos via the send photo button on the IMC but I have been unable to open them, they come up as a jpg, very frustrating! I have tried clicking on them and right clicking on them but nothing happens!!!! I have a ...

8 response(s), 12 votes
am_just_looking 60 F
2  questions
Why do we wimp out? - 7/29/2008

I'm pretty selective about who I correspond with here, but if the vibe is right, I'm happy to meet the person and just see.

Yet I've noticed a lot of guys don't follow through.

Why is that?

I know there's no definitive answer, but just wanted to get some discussion going about it.

36 response(s), 27 votes
imalwaysready247 58 F
1  question
Any suggestions for non-latex magnums for XL? - 7/29/2008

I was chatting with someone online who says he is allergic to latex and needs magnums. I HAVENT EVER FOUND SOMETHING IN AN XL THATS NOT LATEX HAVE YOU?...

12 response(s), 12 votes
PulchyJo 35 F
51  questions
When does it get to be , not healthy? - 7/28/2008

I realize, in this day and age, there are several different fetishes, likes, dislikes, weird fantasies, extremely off the wall propositions, , but where does it "over step" the bounds between fantasies, fetishes, and just down right disgustedness. I have been reading different articles, questions and the likes on here for about 4 months now, and right when i think i've seen it all, someone comes ...

20 response(s), 21 votes
myoung32002 65 F
1  question
to give or not to give....? - 7/28/2008

OK ladies.... what about men who just love for you to go down on them but won't even lick your thigh let alone your pussy....? toss them or what?

27 response(s), 18 votes
blackhammer747 59 M
11  questions
Women only - 7/28/2008

What is the mst thoughtful thing a man can do to make your week?

14 response(s), 29 votes
why people judge - 7/28/2008

If a man likes men people look down upon them . But if a woman likes a woman people see no trouble . I have no problem how people judge me . But there are so many men in here that said that they want one thing , but they are still e-mailing someone like me. If your eyes were closed with a woman in front of you and i was in front of you could you tell the difference .

15 response(s), 19 votes
rm_19harley86 67 M
19  questions
+ or - - 7/28/2008

Are you thinking positive or negative, just because things aren't going your way?...

23 response(s), 10 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
your preference - 7/28/2008

which do you prefer to wear and makes u comfortable?

a boxer b brief c commando d.my wife undies

for the ladies e boxers f granny panties(girdle etc) g nice pair of panties h thong or g string i commando like most of the celebrity j my boyfriends underpants

16 response(s), 25 votes
Suggestions for a Photographer in the NYC area - 7/28/2008

I need to get good pics on my profile. I do not want just a full frontal or some kind of cheap 1970's porno looking snapshot. I want classy, quality photograhy.

can anyone recomend a professional that can do this for me in the NYC metro area?

Thanks

8 response(s), 3 votes
Da1whowantsome 27 M
1  question
Need a girls opinion! - 7/28/2008

My best friend is a girl and lately we have been hanging out by ourselves a lot and we are so close that sometimes we joke around that we are married, so how do I know that she is willing to take our relationship futher without ruining our friendship?

14 response(s), 15 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
Lee Ho Fook's! - 7/28/2008

"I saw a werewolf with a Chinese menu in his hand.

Walking through the streets of Soho in the rain.

He was looking for a place called Lee Ho Fook's.

Going to get himself a big dish of beef chow mein."

Aw-woo, Werewolves of London!"


I know I've been out with a few of them god damn female fucking werewolves and I'm sure some of you have ...

20 response(s), 39 votes
BennyAndajetz 49 M
1  question
Spitting is not sexy. - 7/28/2008

I recently got new digital cable. Of course I checked out the porn channels while they were free-of-charge. Besides the girls looking way-too-thin and having balloon-like fake boobs, something else bugged me. What's the deal with "spitting"?

I can understand, it's probably "nature's lube". But the performers spit everywhere: on genitals, asses, boobs, even each others' mouths---places ...

10 response(s), 51 votes
3some discussion - 7/28/2008

3some is fun, what do you think about it ? if you tried it, what are the good things and the bad things you had experienced ?

11 response(s), 11 votes
How much can a woman take? - 7/28/2008

Everyone talks about how big guys are and if size matters. Well...OK...let me ask the women here...just how much can you take before it becomes painful or uncomfortable? Is there some magical length that you can't handle? Maybe all women are different, but there must be some length that no one can handle. Just asking.

18 response(s), 19 votes
rm_robotom85 38 M
6  questions
Fuck Mates redeemable points - 7/28/2008

Has anyone out there actually earned enough points by voting, blogging, posting questions etc... to redeem them for a free months membership? If so how do you recommend getting points quickly?

20 response(s), 20 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
truth - 7/27/2008

have you had sex with the utility people for example the mailman, cable repair personnel, the meter readers, the a/c repair personnel, plumber, electrician etc?

i know its easier for the guys to confess but we know some of the women in here have done it!

14 response(s), 29 votes
When replying to someone's wink, what to say? - 7/27/2008

I have a question about replying to a wink that a member has sent you albeit over a month ago. - If you've been away from the site, and been preoccupied and or busy with other things, how do you mention in a message sent to the person who winked at you, why it's taken as long as it has to get back to them, whilst sounding genuinely interested in them? I haven't got around to contacting them. I'm ...

16 response(s), 27 votes
MAW_n_servzwolf 60 C
26  questions
a shaving question of different sorts - 7/27/2008

Male here I had My fiance shave My balls a few weeks ago, now I have an ingrown hair...My question is how do I get rid of it with the least amount of pain? thank you for your advice in advance

15 response(s), 20 votes
blackhammer747 59 M
11  questions
A womens needs and a women wants - 7/27/2008

Women what is one of the most important things you look for in a man in a relationship?

8 response(s), 9 votes
Opening the mind of an introvert wife? - 7/27/2008

Does any one have any suggestions on how I can get my wife to think more openly about sex? She hates if I eat her out, she cant link anything but a 69 and sex is just a one time thing to bear a baby... Is there a way out or does one have to blame it on bad luck and get along??

17 response(s), 29 votes
Shafalia 61 F
20  questions
What is in a name??? - 7/27/2008

Being in a chat, you really get to see the different nics some people come up with to reprent themselves on this site.

Some are sexual in natural. Some are something that describes you or your personality. Some are a name you have heard or a name you have seen that has caught your fancy.

Some though really really make you wonder what the heck they were thinking of when they made ...

15 response(s), 30 votes
Slimeout 48 C
1  question
?? - 7/27/2008

It amazes us how many people come on this site and AREN'T looking to hook up!! We search time and time again for a nice lady friend or sometimes a couple, and we always come up empty-handed. No one told us when we started swinging a year ago that it would be so hard! lol Any suggestions?

14 response(s), 15 votes