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Sex & Orgasms All Weekend
 
I have this fantasy to spend a long weekend with 2 or 3 couples (F - Bisexual) and about a dozen of str8 men in Palm Springs or Palm Desert at a private place with pool, all nude, all day and weekend.
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As time moves on
Posted:Jan 31, 2022 3:24 pm
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2022 6:02 pm
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It is an awesome day at the beach, it is fun, and I can not help fall for a 20 year old college guy. He comes over for the BBQ on Sunday; you fall in love with him and consummate your love all night. It is intense, it is one big firework most of the night, and you lose count of how many orgasms he provides. You hardly talk, you let your heart and bodies do the talking.

Ten years later, he is back in town, you are still in love with him, you agree to meet him at dinner at his hotel, expecting a firework when you see him and his smile. At dinner he talks a lot, he listens, but you don’t see him to be eager to rush upstairs in his room. As it his preoccupation with his business deal, his wife and at home or does he not find you as attractive than ten years ago.
Your heart is pounding rapidly when he takes you by the hand, leans in with a kiss and whispers I LOVE YOU in your ear. Once you in the shower with him, you finally can hold his manhood in your hands and it does show that you are still desirable to him, that he still loves you. The night is over, it was not as explosive, not as intense then you expected. You are thankful for the five orgasms, but you were hoping for many more.

About twenty years later, you find yourself on a business trip in the hotel then where he was staying. You feel somewhat disenchanted that he did not invite you his room right away while you freshen up for dinner, make yourself pretty for him. He is charming, generous with compliments during dinner, you see his desire in his eyes and you don’t mind when he talks also about his divorce, his . No question, he shows his love you in many different ways, just like in the past. You give every sign that you ready go upstairs, but he orders another bottle of wine, your suggestion the drinks in your suite is not adhered . For days you fantasized about how wonderful, how intense the night with him will be. You yearn for his physical love, you cannot wait get upstairs the suite. It is almost midnight, when you find yourself with him naked in the bed, holding him tightly, full of anticipation.

You appreciate the foreplay, you appreciate the 69, however, oral is what you like with your girlfriends, from a man you are in love with you expect less oral and much being one. His penis is not as hard as you remember and when he finally attempts enter you, is not as easy as in the past, does not feel the . Is his desire, is his fire, is his love for you gone?
You appreciate his gift inside you, despite the awkward delivery, you still love him. He needs a break, he is sweet about it, cuddles, kisses, fingers and more attempts for oral, but you desire another gift, you did not really an orgasm yet After some time, strokes, tongue and mouth show some affect. If would not be the love him, you could perceive as work, indeed. He deposits one more gift, hardly intense enough for a very light orgasm, he is spent You are burning inside, you want explode multiple times, but you accept the very limited physical love. It almost feels like defeat, the night turned out totally different than you dreamed about.


While he falls asleep, you your eyes wide open, wonder if the love is gone, if his fire for your is extinct or if he no longer finds you attractive show you also physical love in a grand way. While your heart is happy that lies next you, you cannot feel any physical bliss.
5 Comments
Breaking the rule
Posted:Jan 17, 2022 3:33 pm
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2022 5:39 pm
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Jimmy had his friend with him on Sunday, it was the first time he came over an did he While not very experienced, Dwane had 1 friend so far, what a great talent he is

He experienced his first BJ, which was a surprise to , his first reverse cowgirl, first anal, first 3some, but stopped short of his first DP and his first time without a condom

He insisted to wear a condom, to which I usually don’t agree, but I had a plan. When he was heating up, his pounding become more intense, I reached down and pulled the condom off, as expected, he didn’t notice it. after he ...\8 and wanted to take off the condom, he noticed he filled up Dwane was furious first, but cooled off after my boyfriends laughed about it and reasoned with him. Not having been with a for some time, his delivery was massive and it didn’t take long for oozing , which he found to be a major turn on to him and he was \8 in no time, ready for more

When do you find a guy who had 1 friend so far and always used condoms. He got to be safe to go without a condom. Don't you think so too

Alright, so much for the visit and now to the poll

OVER 30 YEARS of making love without condoms and not once ended up with an STD risk management & being selective, believing in LOVE & not >>! every good looking and nice sounding man does off
Women – Would never pull it off without his consent
Men – You pull it off, I stop, it is over forever, no second chance
Women – Have done it also, but my guy/s didn’t complain
Men – If she needs and wants my seed, why not
Women – I think it is disgusting
Men – This is taken advantage of an inexperienced young man
Others – Your option is not included? Please comment below
7 Comments , 27 votes
When you found love you do not want to go back
Posted:Jan 7, 2022 7:02 am
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2022 3:35 pm
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Reflection of the past, is always part of Xmas and New Year for me, it was no different this year. Thinking all the way back to my childhood, my age, my first boyfriend, first sexual experience, first job and the day I figured out what true love is.

They say Once you go black you never go back , it doesnt hold true for me, but once you make love you never want to go back to SEX. This phrase, those words once you make love you never want to go back to SEX apply to me, regardless of the skin color or the penis size. When I love a man, it does not matter if he is 5 inches or 15 inches, if he lasts 2 minutes or 20 minutes, I am in heaven when he is in me

No doubt, my first boyfriend was not love, it was infatuation, which at that time was not clear to me, in my mind it was love, I wanted to be with him every minute, he was Gods gift to me. Every kiss was electrifying, just thinking about him made my nipples get hard and my panties wet. When I went black, it was not his skin color, his penis size, he was neglected by his wife he claimed, he loved me he said and yes, I was in love with him. It was not infatuation!

His sweet words, his hugs, his kisses made me melt away. No question, I felt bad for him for being neglected by his wife, I had deep feelings for him, and yes I was in love with him. However, I didnt want to give myself away to a married man, wanted to wait until they separated. Without question, I would have married him, once he is free again. Then came the ball game, the alcohol, my desire to be one with him was overwhelming, I opened up for him. It was not a great experience at all; he became and still is the worst men I was with in my life. It took years for me to trust a black man again and yes, I did fall in love with a few black men years later. BlackKing on here was one of them, he left Fuck Mates and then I lost my phone, lost his number and K. oh yes, I wish he would have stayed in Cali, but we always meet-up when he is in town.

It is Max, who troubles me today, once you have been with him, you want to go back again and again for more. Needless to say, I dont know even one woman who he didnt take to heaven and kept her there for hours, if not for days. Every time he ejaculated, I exploded Massive, intensive orgasms, one after another, it is a Max guaranty. He moved out late last year, I miss him so much. His sense of humor, his sweet heart, his love, skin, muscle, tongue, fingers and about 6 inch rock hard \8 made him special Am I addicted or just truly in love?

He truly loves me and I love him, if it would be addiction, I would not understand why he moved on, would nott understand his desire to have soon. All that said, it is still hard for me to know that he is gone, at least for now, he has a special place in my heart and deep down I still hope he is coming back to visit, to please me, again and again.

Some on Fuck Mates are looking for SEX, I for sure do not look for sex on Fuck Mates, I want to find love, I want to be in love with the man/men I am with, even on Fuck Mates

Oh yes, when I find love all I can think about isOVER 30 YEARS of making love without condoms and not once ended up with an STD risk management & being selective, believing in LOVE & not F@&# every nice looking and sounding man does pay off
7 Comments
Access to and or Grandson
Posted:Nov 4, 2021 12:19 pm
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2022 3:37 pm
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In some areas of our wonderful world, some women give access to their adult sons or grandsons to their bi-girlfriends. While on vacation, I have experienced that some men also offer their daughters or granddaughters to their female and male friends, even though it appears not to be that common, in most areas I have visited over the years.
Women – no way I would let my female friend have access to my adult /grandson
Women – if she likes him, it is not for me to stop her or him
Women – I have facilitated activities between a female friend and my adult /grandson
Men – you touch my adult /granddaughter, I shall cut off your penis and tongue
Men - it is hot to know my is with an experienced man or woman
Men – Oh yes, my adult , , grandson, all shared already
Men – happy to help, but the offspring’s need to decide with whom and when
Other - Any other thoughts and experience?
8 Comments , 50 votes
What Shape Is YOUR Preference
Posted:Sep 27, 2021 11:10 am
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2022 5:48 pm
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Over the years I have learned if men prefer my shape of vulva they are much better at oral.
When it comes to women, this is not the case that much. Cuddling, touching, French-kissing adds a lot to the quality of the oral performance and of course, if I made them squirt already before or not.

What vulva shape is your preference?
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Plum
Peach
Orange
Butterfly
Cameltoe
Goattoe
Other – Is there any other shape?
18 Comments , 75 votes
In all shapes and colors
Posted:Sep 26, 2021 2:10 pm
Last Updated:Sep 28, 2021 4:12 pm
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A Saturday can be a wonderful thing, starting out with endorphin production in bed at sunrise, taking time at breakfast and go for a relax walk at the beach. Watching USC and the surf contest, is on the menu, young well trained athletes are eye candy for any female who feels deep down the natural need of procreation. A day off work, a day with boyfriends and friends, just having a harmonies day, love to be shared between all and no pain at all, just joy.

It should all come different, a crazy man with a gun, gets close to the spectators of the surf contest, living the HB no choice than to shoot at him. Thank God, no one beside the aggressor was hurt, thanks to the police. Guns are so valuable to our freedom, but in the wrong hands of the wrong guys, regardless of their color or shape, it can not only ruin your day, but also end it. Just thinking what he could have done, what he may had planned, shoots down a chill my spine.

USC loses against the Beavers was not only painful, watching the Beavers bite the balls of the USC team created a depressing effect in the house, except for our visitors from up north. To my surprise, the guys from up north could care less about what happened on the beach, could care less about how we females felt about the incident at the pier. They were delighted about the win of the Beavers and were ready to party, empty beer after beer and hoped to get one or the other female of us into having sex with them.

How can men, who appear sweet, kind and considerate only get so self-centered, cold, inconsiderate, when their team wins and their hormones run away with them.
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Do you [B](make her) [/B]squirt?
Posted:Sep 24, 2021 1:29 pm
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2022 5:49 pm
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is not a talk between girlfriends, people you meet while vacationing, but also shows up on profiles and messages on Fuck Mates.

Do you squirt or do you make your girlfriend/wife squirt?

As a bi-girl I do both, and enjoy when my boyfriends invite bi-curious girls over have their first female and squirt experience. works the fastest and easiest, when they give their boyfriends a BJ while I take care of their pussy and make them squirt. always works, is guaranteed, and everyone loves Especially me, when he enters her right after she is done squirting, deposits his seed in her, and I am allowed lick all out and up, make her squirt a few more times while doing

Is deep emotional involvement needed for you squirt or is all about physical skills?

What is your experience, please vote and comment below!
Woman – What is squirting?
Woman – I have never squirted
Woman – My man doesn’t care if I squirt, he just wants to get off
Woman – Squirting with intercourse works, at least sometimes
Woman – Fingers and tongue can get me to squirt
Man – Not every woman squirts, never experienced a squirter
Man – It does not matter to me if a woman squirts or not
Man – I know how to make my woman squirt with my penis
Man – I make my woman squirt with my tongue and/or fingers
Other – Is there another option?
9 Comments , 74 votes
Heavenly thoughts on a Monday
Posted:Sep 20, 2021 6:10 am
Last Updated:Sep 24, 2021 5:55 pm
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Does it start with the voice, the scent, the looks, the walk, the thoughts, the surrounding, is it love, sex or is it all or some of it, I wonder often as of late. Is the goal of finding heaven on earth a mute exercise or can it be found in our sometimes cruel world?

When I was a , high school, college years, full of energy a day went by so quickly, always filled with bliss and the next day promised to be even better. No troubles at home, in school or with friends except some jealousies here and there. The quest of finding heaven on earth didn’t really enter my mind at all. Friends, candy cotton or doctor play just came natural, my first boyfriend, was not infatuation, it was true love. Kissing, touching, making him make cotton candy, was incredibly fulfilling. I suppose I felt like I was in heaven.

Losing my virginity was a bless never experienced before, certainly heaven looked differently to me! Intimacy had become a must, feeling the hands of my boyfriend, experiencing skin to skin contact while making love in the missionary style with a lot of eye contact, receiving his seed in my womb, not only made me explode, but also complete. Made me feel I am in heaven.

I was adored, I was admired, I was on cloud 9 without noticing that some men have different needs to get to heaven. Is it natural instinct, is it self-centered thinking, upbringing or nature? Whatever it is, my experience with a neglected husband crashed heaven for me. I loved him, he claimed he loved me, but after I gave myself to him, he went home to his wife without even giving me a goodbye kiss. Only to call me a few days later to tell me how much he loved me and he got to see me and show me his love again. I was crashed, I was hurt, I was in pain and he talks about love when all he wanted was sex.

It took some time to get over it, yes, physical needs, sexual desires appeared deep inside me from time to time, but not even enough to have the desire to masturbate. Love doesn’t require intercourse, love is not monogamous, and love is not limited to one gender, but it is the door to heaven at least to me. With love and giving it time, I found my way back to intimacy and to heaven.

Men are not all the same, we just need to figure out which ones are not for us and with the right man or men, any touch, kiss, sexual position is a step to nirvana. While I could not imagine I would ever agree to anal, I learned that it can lead to elation, if you love the man and he loves you. Anal in connection with a DP results in ecstasy, with the right men it just happens; when love is involved it takes me to heaven.

Most men just want sex, while I very much appreciate missionary, mermaid, nirvana & DP positions, may it be in the bed, at the beach or any other place. Touching, cuddling, kissing prior, during and after love making are the ingredients for me to go to heaven and stay there for a long time. Reaching the nirvana level for any woman or teenage girl is my great wish today, because it is so different than were you can end up at the best with sex. It is just heavenly!

Have men manipulated us females, is it society or was it the pill who allowed us woman to accept men to give us one or more orgasm and live us feel empty just a few minutes or hours later? Is it not love what makes any position or almost any position special, allows cervical stimulation and actually provides incredible orgasms, heavenly bliss? Making love to me is to bless your partner, at least for ourselves for the rest of our life.

Is intimacy controlled by nature or is it a combination between our brain, emotions and nature, I wonder today. Sex is for now, love and making is forever. Love only knows a beginning, but never an end, only sex does!
5 Comments
Just some thoughts after a long night
Posted:Sep 14, 2021 11:29 am
Last Updated:Sep 28, 2021 4:15 pm
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Don’t we all like be desired, appreciated, and pleased by someone we love? Does age make a difference, I suppose not, as I feel the today than how I felt about when I was still an adolescent. While many males are different, based on the few I met during the decades, you also have some have the needs I do. Unfortunately takes some time in some cases until your truly get know them. surprises me all the time that deep down many men would like a monogamous female, while they want have the freedom sleep and fall a few times a month or year. “ just happened” is a phrase I recall so well.

No doubt, if I love a man, I would like please him emotional and physically. If I am not incorrectly informed, seven of ten men cheat in relationships or marriage, while one in ten is honest about , if he trips and falls on another women. Is possible monogamies for me, I am not sure.

Is the intention of nature that a satisfies a female totally, emotionally and physically, provides her and her offspring’s with all they need in their lives and society interferes with nature? It is not easy for a male to provide for a woman and her today, many are not able, and we don’t have many Bill Gates in our wonderful land. The other question is, are many men are able please a female sexually?

While I have met a few men got close on a regular basis, most fail short big time. This is why I consider myself very luck that I have boyfriends have no need for a monogamous female. Is not of paramount importance for men open up during courtship and initial dates, prior becoming intimate, if they seek a monogamous female? would avoid emotional pain for men and females.

When I was a , was not fully aware of my sexual desires and needs, monogamy was something desirable. Not so much today anymore If I would fall in love with a man today, requires an exclusive relationship in order be happy, I would pass on any intimacy, in order not hurting him or myself.
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Love doesn’t discriminate, nor do I Married or single, you love me & I fall in love with you, I shall do anything 4 YOU It is not about 88b size it is all about LOVE What is Your position on DP Very and steel hard is what I desire, but twenties and early thirties will not be refused when love is part of
9 Comments
Is it nature, society, genetics or did God make some of us that way?
Posted:Sep 5, 2021 10:11 am
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2021 2:12 pm
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It never fails, at home or while traveling in countries with western values, that you see women throwing themselves at men, demanding sex. You never find that in Asia or Africa unless money is involved “by women who work in the service trade”, while all other women on those continents respect themselves and are very selective in choosing their mates.

Thus, many men get the wrong picture about us women and start to believe most of us just hide our needs and it is their job to wake us up, when in fact we need men and not dicks to get us going. How wrong and distorted the picture of females become because of a few women!

It is the same here in Paradise, while love making does happen every day, sex is only requested by one German lady who comes down here on the weekend and one of her girl friends if she is with her. It is all about big dicks, but any size will do for these two
Nature created these women so that the human race can’t become extinct
Society with all its porn, sexual abuse, low esteem and other issues created these women
It is mostly influenced by the first experience, how she lost her virginity
It is all genetics; some women just need dicks and not love
God made women for the Garden of Eden; it is the devil that entered those women who just want dicks
Others – please comment below why do you think some women go for just any dick
6 Comments , 31 votes
It is not about \8\8b size
Posted:Aug 13, 2021 10:04 am
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2021 4:58 pm
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God made me for average and below average \8\8b, this is why size doesn’t matter me at all, love does matter. Except when I fall in love with a man has an XXXL one Was willing give myself Jakob today, missionary style, he was hard like a rock, but was too painful. Despite my love for him, I had to ask him to stop and get off me. Christa loves him 2, is able take huge ones did fill in for me He is the biggest man I have held in my hands, way over inches long and a girth of over 8 inches for sure.
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I am a woman - 12 inches or more balls deep work great for me missionary style, but not doggy style
I am a man – I am bigger and I manage to get into any female, regardless of position
I am a woman – I pass on men over 10 inches, love involved or not, it is just not my size
I am a man – I have never experienced, seen a woman taking a huge one over 11 inches
I am a woman – Have had a man with over 12 inches and 8+ girth ball deep, but didn’t measure it, could be that I am off on t
Others – you will not believe it, but . . . . (pls comment below)
9 Comments , 36 votes
Self-Doubt into Self-Believe
Posted:Jul 23, 2021 8:11 am
Last Updated:Sep 28, 2021 4:33 pm
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Have you ever doubted yourself? When I was a , self-doubt was the center of my life. My school grades were not the best, dad gave me the feeling, he would have had rather a boy and when a girl, got be the smartest, the prettiest, the most admired one. When we played “cotton-candy” they boys always preferred the girls with a bush, which I didn’t have yet. Even at the doctor games or any other game, I was not first choice.

When I was about , my favorite uncle took me camping for a weekend and while staring at the camp fire, I broke down; I finally shared with someone how I felt. He held me in his arms, whipped away my tears, wash gentle, caring and started to take away my self-doubt, layer by layer. He made me understand how my father felt, that school grads can be improved by studying rather than playing with the other in the park or woods. is nothing wrong not be the most desired girl in the group.

I felt wonderful on the way home, looking at my dad different and understanding his wishes and taking time study rather than playing all the time made me feel much better. About once a month, my uncle would make time for a weekend or day, practice with me more and it was always wonderful, very special. It didn’t take long and self-doubt was a thing of the past. I believed in myself, a test in school did not turn me into a sweaty pumpkin and I became to be known as the best cotton-candy maker in our neighborhood.

Have you had a mentor in your life?
3 Comments
Your position on DP
Posted:Jul 9, 2021 10:19 am
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2022 3:38 pm
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What do you think about women and men who engage in DP’s?
Only sluts DP
Men who DP are animals
If a woman loves 2 men, why not?
If hubby or BF truly love her, why not give her the ultimate pleasure
A woman needs to find her sexuality first to enjoy it
Men who don’t share their wives or girlfriends are jealous & self-centered bastards
Other – please also comment below - otherwise we never know what your thoughts are :(
21 Comments , 124 votes

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