UPDATE: I have met some nice guys here and, at least for now, think I have what I was looking for... That's not to say things can't or won't change down the road, but for now I will not be checking my account with any regularity. If I don't reply please don't take it personally, most likely I just haven't been on or checked messages. Personally I find the sight of a Black Man with a White Woman to be very erotic... it just looks right. I guess opposites attract:) Let's see. I'm an attractive Woman that looking to meet a Black Man for some added spice and excitement. We can start with IM to get to know each other a bit and then figure it out from there. I do work out regularly, though I would not say I'm super fit - though my figure is starting to get there again. Pretty blue eyes and a nice smile. I am a straightforward person and easy to get along with. Bright and good company. Can be very sexy and sensual when I'm with the right guy:) To the white guys viewing my profile: Thank you for your interest, but I have had vanilla all my life and have developed a strong preference for chocolate. Good luck and hope you find someone compatible.

My Ideal Person Looking for an Alpha Male. Confident, Masculine, and a touch Dominant I'm looking for someone that has that ability to take charge but still be respectful, to be in control and yet still be compassionate. I like a guy that is articulate, witty, and charming. I need you to be able to make me feel safe and relaxed when I am with you.

Physically I'm looking for a taller guy, over 6ft, and generally prefer guys with big strong shoulders, chest, arms, and legs. Leaner guys are OK too if your on the taller side. I don't need six pack abs, though if you have them I won't say no Stocky Guys with a beer belly are fine. And uhmmm as far as the package goes... yes I'm looking for sex and yes I am looking for a Man that is hung.

Relationship wise though I'm not looking for a LTR but really not looking for a one time thing either, more like FWB would be optimal. Please understand that I am a woman at the end of the day and even if I find you physically attractive I will need to get to know you and feel that connection first... Not to say that can't or won't happen quickly if the situation is correct, but you will need to understand it probably won't be instantaneous. If the mutual attraction is there then nature will take it's course.

So if that's you and you like what you see then, what do you think about putting a little Chocolate in my Vanilla?

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Spanking, Role Playing

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

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