My sexuality used to make up a large portion of who I am and how I live, but only in the confines of passionate and sincere long term relationships. Compared to how good that sex was this casual stuff has historically been like flavorless cafeteria food. But even though I’m deliberately avoiding romance for a while, it feels like part of me is missing. So if I’m gonna try and scratch that itch I’m going to be picky about what I use. Size helps, I’d just like to let go of control (though I also enjoy reclaiming it) and get out of my head for a while

My Ideal Person Not interested in helping you cheat, there’s always more dicks in the sea. It’s easier to have good sex with someone I can respect. And I don’t mean 50’s housewife, school principal, drill sergeant “you will respect my authority” kind of respect, Im just looking for a decent person I won’t regret letting inside me, who I can feel good about letting my guard down around. I don’t need a musclebound alpha male, I just want someone who isn’t trying to prove something to themselves by proving it with me. There’s nothing sexier than confidence without arrogance.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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