Please skip this ad if you do not condone extramarital relationships. Otherwise, read on... Aren't you tired of being judged by appearances? Sure, we all have our fantasy lover, but perhaps if we looked under the skin more we'd be able to see the passion that burns in each and every one of us. Wouldn't that make life grand! Well, let me tell you some things I bet you never suspected. I've been in bands that have performed in seven states and three Canadian provinces. I've done many kinds of writing, technical writing for a living but erotic writing for fun. I love trying all kinds of food, from Chinese to Indian to Greek. And I love to walk. So what is it that I want? I'm looking for a no-strings-attached, friend with benefits. Maybe you're like me, in a relationship that has all of the steak but none of the sizzle. Or perhaps you just want to try doing different things with different people. No matter. If you can accept me for who I am and what I have to offer, let's talk. Since I brought it up, what DO I have to offer? An open mind, for starters. Not just in the bedroom, but outside of it as well. There aren't many, if any, kinds of people I wouldn't want to get to know. Then, there's the understanding that comes with the need for discretion. Maybe we wouldn't be able to date traditionally; maybe we'd only be able to meet when our significant others assumed we were otherwise committed. But I would strive to give you that attention and respect that may be missing from your life, whether you have a relationship or not. And if we throw in some good times, what could be wrong with that?

My Ideal Person Must be willing to try new things, in and out of bed, in short, to be a "friend, with benefits." Discretion is a must. Drug and disease free. I'm far less concerned with outward appearance than with inner passion; I am no "Shallow Hal!"

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Keith Emerson,Chick Corea, Herbie Hancock (acoustic piano),Frank Zappa

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'm in business helping people use personal technology
such as computers, smartphones, and digital cameras.
I meet the client for an initial consultation where we discuss
the basis for a service contract, then I put it together
for your approval. Training uses your own equipment at
the place you use it, such as your home office. So, like I
said, we do this all nice and businesslike, and you're
making wonderful progress. Then one week I arrive at your
home and you look normally dressed from the street. But
when you greet me I observe that your clothing is so sheer
it leaves nothing to the imagination. I try to be cool, say
something like "You look lovely today, " and
carry on with the lesson. And you go along, but use every
opportunity to touch and come closer until we share the
same chair and your sheer silkiness rubs me in all the right
ways. That's when I lose all decorum, take your face
between my hands, and kiss you hard, and you respond in kind.
And as I'm feeling your smoothness under the silk,
you loosen my shirt and tie, undo my belt, and harden me more
with lips and tongue. The chair is pushed aside, I find myself
on my back with you astride me, moving your thighs and hips
in a way that drives us delerious with pleasure while I grope
your nipples in a hopefully not insignificant way. Having
exhausted us both, you collapse on me and we lie on the floor
in each others' arms catching our breath and gently
kissing. How ironic it is that I still collect my fee,

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Let's work it out together

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I don't have a scene set up, but I've always fantasized
about Joan Collins and Heather Locklear. To get a little
less dated, Michelle Pfeiffer in Tha Fabulous Baker Brothers
was a huge turn-on.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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