[COLOR blue][SIZE 4][B]Hello! Welcome to my id![/B] [SIZE 4][COLOR red][B]INTRO:[/B][/COLOR] I have had experience in various alternative relationships [escapade, open, multiple,[I]*very*[/I] multiple, poly, handyman, light bondage, live-in babysitter, chaotic neutral catalyst, strange attractor, ad hoc sex the, hide the shoehorn inna corner...] as well as more mundane kinds [5 years of marriage; numerous occasionally luminous friendships (both with and without benefits) with various remarkable women...]. I am sex-positive, open-minded, pagan-friendly & test regularly. While I'm perally het, you [I]*definitely*[/I] don't need to be!--the most amazing and wonderful partners I've ever had have almost always been bi women. ([I]Aside:[/I] Any thoughts on why that might be...? (Does your own experience concur...?)) [/COLOR] [B][COLOR red]INTERESTS:[/COLOR][/B] [COLOR blue]Sex,esoterica, media, yoga, linguica, fiction, sex, mythology, art, genetics, peoplewatching, NYC architecture, sex, spirituality, pets, anime, scifi, smart-ass humor, science, comics, magik, sex, psychology, & [I]*ORAL SEX*. [/I](Long slow oral sessions where you not only lose complete track of what day it is, but also may temporarily forget your own name...) [/COLOR] [B][COLOR red]DISINTERESTS:[/COLOR][/B] [COLOR blue]Real pain or humiliation of any kind, water sports or anal sex (tho a true enthusiast of the later might encourage me). [I]Also:[/I] Fashion [except as entertainment], finance, cars, sports, or why [I]*your*[/I] religion is [I]*my*[/I] Answer.[/COLOR] [B][COLOR red]GENERALLY: [COLOR blue][/B]I'm just a regular ol' retro model jeans and flannel shirt 420-lovin' not-entirely-ex hippie kinda guy (with some nice under-the-hood freelance evolutionary intelligence agent[slash]spiritual warrior retro-fits), who generally finds more in common with various counterculture types than with the mainstream. Always hoping to keep a sense of humor (despite all evidence...). [/COLOR] [B][COLOR red]TURN-ONS:[/COLOR] [/B][COLOR blue]Willing flesh, a lively mind, a shining heart. I value intelligence creativity kindness empathy beauty skill independence an open mind liveliness passion & anyone who has something interesting to say on any topic. (D'oy! I should maybe want someone dull unattractive mean rigid inarticulate and passionless?) Extra points to an animal lover (I have a remarkable all-white Akita/shepherd hybrid & some wily cats.) Worth mentioning--a little shameless lack of inhibition never hurts...! [/COLOR] [B][COLOR red]TURN-OFFS:[/COLOR][/B] [COLOR blue]Empathic indifference, bigotry, scorn [as opposed to witty sarcasm], willful ignorance, a curdled soul, blithe cultural chauvinism, possessive jealousy, skindeep depth, mindless rigidity, lack of self-respect & habitual manipulativeness. [/COLOR] [COLOR red][B]IN BRIEF:[/B][/COLOR] [COLOR blue]I browse perals ads for signs of intelligent life, write, sell stuff on eBay, indifferently attempt home repair, believe seven impossible things before breakfast, prefer Cherry Coke & enjoy walking my inna park. All worshippers of Mad Emperor George II, please--this way to the egress.... All others: Call me Sam.[/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE 5] [COLOR red]M'wah! ~~Sam[/COLOR] [COLOR red]PS:[/COLOR] [COLOR blue] [SIZE 4]{Sam[underline]Thoth where the male is not at all chilly...}[COLOR red]~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ [COLOR blue][SIZE 4]"Do not ask me who I am and do not ask me to remain the same. Leave it to our bureaucrats and police to see that our papers are in order." [B]~~Foucault[/SIZE][/B][/COLOR][COLOR red] ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

My Ideal Person
I tend to find myself involved with intelligent & complicated women.(A good thing, but never an entirely unmixed blessing...!)

I'm here primarily for casual fun--but I personally prefer to let such things play out in whatever direction that they may seem to be most inclined [from nowhere to... anywhere]. (I try to make it a personal rule to avoid the nasty habit of over-defining the nature or limits of a relationship before it has even begun!)

I don't believe in "ideal" people. Prince Charming and those guys are *fairy tales*. Everyone is unique, everyone has flaws; and, very often, human beings are worth knowing as much for their flaws and imperfections as for those qualities which it might be easier to admire. It takes all of these things to make us who we are.

Only a real imperfect human person can make your bed warm (or otherwise inviting), or do something endearingly unexpected, or kiss you *just* right...

Then there's the unpredictable "chemistry" random factor, which can either keep apart people who seem to be a perfect match on paper, or draw together people who otherwise may have nothing in common at all.

Even lacking that crucial sexual chemistry, making a new friend can still be nice. (If a woman doesn't show or express interest fairly early on in a relationship, I generally assume that BAS [best available scenario] is that I might make a new friend-without-benefits. Best of all possible worlds: A smart funny bi chick to ogle other women with!)

Tho, while making a new friend *is* always nice, and flirting with a new friend is nicer--licking & fucking a new friend to high heaven can be... well, heavenly. {Mmmmm.})

If there is anything else you might want to know--feel free to ask.

M'wah! ~~Sam

PS:{Sam[underline]Thoth also has a space that is mine.}

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"I will not be just a tourist in the world of images, just watching images passing by which I cannot live in, make love to, possess as permanent sources of joy and ecstasy." ~~Anais Nin
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What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Sheryl, Tori, Melissa, KateBush, MeredithBrooks, PaulaCole, JoanOsbourne, LuciousJackson, PenelopeHo

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Pretty mundane: Nothing is as much fun as two hot deliciously oral bi women
together with me in bed taking turns pleasing me and each other..
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[O pschitt--now I feel so--so... *common*!] <br> <br><br>
But its not like its *just* a fantasy. I have memories too!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage, fucking, 69

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I dont tend to fantasize about celebrities much. Its mostly real people I know, or sweet-faced and talented
nameless wimmin from porn vids. <br> <br><br>
But if I had to answer...? <br> <br><br>
Hm. Shakira, Angelina Jolie, Gina Gershon... (into lips
n hips...) <br> <br><br>
What happens? <br> <br><br>
Lips & hips, baby--lips & hips!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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