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The bigblackman show
This is The KINGs place.
Posted:Jun 19, 2017 3:19 pm
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2018 3:41 pm
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Feel free to leave me a private message.
Only you and I will know.



Old profile editions

Profile 2.0



I thought you would never ask!












15 JUN 2017. The KING has returned!

This profile is constantly under construction.

IM NOT JERKING OFF IN ANY OF THE VIDEOS, THEY ARE JUST MUSIC!

I gifted a lot of bling. You will have to check your bling manager to see it.

Please dontt mistake this long ass introduction as me having an attitude. If you are someone that gets a lot of profile views you wil understand where Im coming from.

Please dont send me a friends invite if you dontt even know my name. I dont have any private photos or videos so what you see is what you get. I will accept it and delete you 5 seconds later. No offense but I take friendship a little more seriously than just being a picture on someones profile.

If you don;t have recent pictures or any at all of yourself on your profile or you still havent bothered to fill it out LEAVE ME ALONE! Shadow people are creepy and basically I will ignore you!

NEWS FLASH!! I am 100% percent HETEROSEXUAL.
This means I am only interested in sexual activities with women.

I'm not interested in ANY sexual situations where other men are present or involved. This was on my profile before. Nothing has changed. I dontt live on cuckold street and never will. Aint visiting either!

Now the KING has BLING! COP THAT!!!

I hardly ever log off so if you see that it shows me online at say 4a;m I;m probably sleeping.

I dontt consider pictures of my dick pornography, I call it art!

If I leave a photo comment on your profile please keep in mind that I do pull my dick out at least once a week and display it as my main profile photo. Usually on Wednesdays.

I have had a change of heart and will not delete any photo or video comments. I love them! Except the ones from men and stupid ass females that did not somehow see that big ass statement above.. What did you think I was going to say?

Until you see a symbol on my profile that denotes that I am a gold member don't waste your time sending me an email because I can't read it or respond to it. Check out my blog instead.

i'm not here for Men, Couples and Trans people. It should be obvious but some folks dontt read profiles. I know what I like and who I am. I am not changing or acting differently because I am on this site. I am just here for the ladies.

For all you wives on here you should know that I just wanna fuck you.
If you can leave your husband or boyfriend at home ...........

I don't need to be discrete about using this website. If you do we probably won't be a good match. Im not embarrassed or hiding the fact that I use this site. Hell I brag about it! (for the .001% of males still reading)Trust me, if you had the amount of premium pussy looking at your profile from all over the world like I do, you would too! (unless you are a woman still reading) (( and dont like girls. LOL!!!))

I mostly just check out women who have been checking me out and always browse in private. Life around here is much easier that way. Sometimes I dont have time to do that and only check out who flirted with or hotlisted me. If I like what I see I will let you know I was there. If I write something, I mean it!

I love it when I see a red X by race for me on YOUR profile. I always wonder, why were you here in the first place and why do you keep coming back? (care to explain ) I think you are in denial and you better stop looking because I will change your mind or at least have you thinking about making an exception.
Even though your profile states that you are no;t interested in me that does not mean I wont like what I see if I bother to look at your profile and pictures. Do no t take it personal if I let you know I was there. (No Im not going to send you an email) If this will be a problem, block me completely. BLOCK ME NOW!
You can still look at me though. Come back tomorrow you might see something different. Dont worry It will be our little secret.

To you guys out there, step your game up! I have way too many women looking at my profile that are no;t interested in black men. If they are even thinking about making an exception your ass is in trouble. They will have something on their page stating black cock only and the email form will be disabled.

Lastly, Its alright if you are thinking about coming over to the DARK SIDE ITS ALLLLRIGHT! OH!

UPDATE! 2/17/2011 Now the DARK SIDE has cookies!

Now back to the show!

I am very down to earth and need an outgoing woman to share good times with. I a;m interested in a woman that has her own life and wants to be treated well and feel safe when in my company. I really love pets and being outdoors in the mild weather.

My Ideal Person

Ideal?

She should be able to say I have lots of to go with my AND

Information
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Looking For: Women

Birthdate: October 8, 1970
Hometown: Baltimore, undefined, United States
Relocate?: Yes
Marital Status: Separated
Swinger Type: Not applicable
Height: 5 ft 11 in
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say
Education: Some college
Occupation: Cool mutha fucker
Race: Black
Religion: Agnostic
Have : Yes - but not at home
Want : Might want to have
Male Endowment: Short / Thin
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English, Pillow Talk
Hair Color: Salt and Pepper
Hair Length: Short
Glasses or Contacts: None
Eye Color: Brown
Astrology: Libra (Compatibility)
Personality Type: The Traditionalist
Purity: 44% Pure

My Kinks Lingerie Making Erotic Photography/Video Massage Oral Sex Fetishs (shoes, boots, tongues, body hair, etc.)
Compatibility Chart Score: 49/100


Now after reading all of that you should


If you dontt remember anything about this profile or me make got damn sure you remember this.........





BLING courtesy of

RIP!! I'm gonna represent for ya!
AND


Check them out for that tight shit!

Profile 3.0
08 JUL 2017 3.0

First some bullet points up front:

I am 100% percent HETEROSEXUAL.
This means I am only interested in sexual activities with a woman. Hmm! Maybe two. LOL!!! I've been around long enough to know what I like.
Trust me you there is nothing you can say or do that will change that.

I don't consider pictures of my dick pornography, I call it art! That shiit should be in a frame!

I love getting photo comments and responding! If you aren't a woman don't hold your breath for a response. Sorry.

My videos are almost entirely just music. Most of them were made years ago but I will post more soon.

I hardly ever remember to log off so if you see that it shows me online at say 4am I'm probably sleeping. The fucked up part is it could show me as being offline but I'm not.

Now the KING has BLING! Some of it is that big old school shit you can't make anymore. I will make more. I gifted a lot of it. You will have to check your bling
manager to see it. COP THAT!!! I got expenses!

Please don't send me a friends invite if you don't even know my name. or I know yours. I'm not here to play who has the most friends. I will accept it and delete you 5 seconds later. No offense but the word friend has a different meaning to me. Yes even on this website. It's not being a random picture on someone's profile. Don't worry, if you didn't happen to see this part we can probably still be friends later.

I don't need to be discrete about using this website.

If you don't have recent pictures or any at all of yourself on your profile and/or you still haven't bothered to fill it out LEAVE ME ALONE!
Shadow people are creepy and basically I will ignore you! I mean come on, give me something to work with.

I mostly just check out women who have been checking me out and always browse in private. Life around here is much easier that way.

I love beautiful women and I'm a HUGE flirt! If I'm checking you out and like what I see I will let you know I was there. If I write something, I mean it! If this will be a problem, block me completely. BLOCK ME NOW!
You can still look at me though. Come back as often as you like. Don't worry It will be our little secret.

I'm hear for the ladies but in 2017 and beyond I promise to be a kinder more gentler KING. A KING for all members!

And finally... Damn, I haven't even gotten started yet.

Anyone can leave a private message for me here

If you are just here to perv my pictures, go for it!

If you are intrigued and want to know more, please continue.



You should know right from the beginning that my main reason for me being here has always been to socialize and flirt with beautiful women from all over the world. I know that meeting some of those women will be a natural result of my actions. I'll never be in a rush to meet anyone. I want to get to know those that are in my circle of friends.

From now going forward I will spend less time showing off ( it will be hard but I know I can do it ) and more time getting to know the women that intrigue me. Things have changed since my last stint here and rolling the way I did in the past just isn't possible. I'm going to keep things a lot simpler this go around.

I am a very down to earth and intelligent man.

I'm enjoy the simple pleasures in life but can't deny my nature in wanting to show off every now and then.

I can get along with anybody and always try to keep a woman's feelings in mind.

I try to be as clear as possible in my conversation but my bluntness can sometimes be misunderstood. If I say something to you and you feel as though you can take it in a positive or negative way. Take in s positive way. Believe me, If I meant it in a negative way you would definitely know it.

I really love pets and they seem to love me too. I think they can be excellent judges of character and someone with a pet that adores their human is a big turn on.

I like being outdoors even if I'm just around the house. I like a lot of greenery in my surroundings even though I'm a born and raised city boy.

I'm a patriot! Even at my age I would still gladly give my life if it meant this country would be better off.
Pride for my country is in my blood.

I could go on and on but some things you'll have to find out from a more personal interaction. One last last thing I feel you should know. If we ever spend time together I will protect you, I will provide for you, and I will give you lots of affection. That's just the way I am.

If I interest you enough I know you will make contact.

Take care and I hope that find whatever it is you seek.
My Ideal Person Ideal?

A woman that's highly intelligent and knows it.
A woman close to my height and weight.
A woman that's healthy and has an abundance of energy.
A woman that's outgoing and comfortable with public displays of affection.
A woman that has a great sense of humor and can make ME laugh.
A woman that genuinely cares about me and my well being.
A woman with great culinary skills.
A woman that has class but will always be my freak.



21 NOV 2017 3.5

Introduction
15 JUN 2017. The KING has returned!

08 JUL 2017 3.0
16 JUL 2017 3.1
19 AUG 2017 3.2
26 AUG 2017 3.3

06 NOV 2017 3.4
Why I call myself the KING

21 NOV 2017 3.5
First some bullet points up front:

I am 100% percent HETEROSEXUAL.
This means I am only interested in sexual activities with a woman. Hmm! Maybe two. LOL!!!

I've been around long enough to know what I like.

Trust me there is nothing you can say or do that will change that.

I don't consider pictures of my dick pornography, I call it art! That shit should be in a frame!

I love getting photo comments and responding! If you aren't a woman don't hold your breath for a response. Sorry.

My videos are almost entirely just music I like. It's an idea I came up with years ago. Some are more like music videos I made with and about special friends I had on the site. Most of them were made years ago but I will hopefully post more soon. I need some inspiration.

I hardly ever remember to log off so if you see that it shows me online at say 4am I'm probably sleeping. The fucked up part is it could show me as being offline but I'm not.

Now the KING has BLING! Some of it is that big old school shit you can't make anymore. I will make more. I gifted a lot of it. You will have to check your bling
manager to see it.
COP THAT!!! All porn bling is free.

Please don't send me a friends invite if you don't even know my name. or I know yours. I'm not here to play who has the most friends. I will accept it and delete you 5 seconds later. No offense but the word friend has a different meaning to me. Yes even on this website. It's not being a random picture on someone's profile. Don't worry, if you didn't happen to see this part we can probably still be friends later.
UPDATE:14 JUL 2017
I just disabled it on my profile. I'll have to send you one.

I don't need to be discrete about using this website.

If you don't have at least some recent pictures or any at all of yourself on your profile and/or you still haven't bothered to fill it out LEAVE ME ALONE!
Shadow people are creepy and basically I will ignore you! I mean come on, give me something to work with.

I mostly just check out women who have been checking me out and always browse in private. Life around here is much easier that way.

I love beautiful women and I'm a HUGE flirt! If I'm checking you out and like what I see I will let you know I was there. If I write something, I mean it! If this will be a problem, block me completely. BLOCK ME NOW!
You can still look at me though. Come back as often as you like. Don't worry It will be our little secret.

I'm here for the ladies but in 2017 and beyond I promise to be a kinder more gentler KING. A KING for all members!

And finally... Damn, I haven't even gotten started yet.

Update 07 NOV 2017
I'll keep standard contacts for a while. Why not? If you use the mobile version you should be able to see my pictures and music videos.

If you are just here to perv my pictures, go for it!

If you are intrigued and want to know more, please continue.

New Level

You should know right from the beginning that the main reason for me being here has always been to socialize and flirt with beautiful and intriguing women from all over the world. I know that meeting some of those women will be a natural result of my actions. You could say that I am polyamorous online when it comes to this site but monogamous offline. I'll never be in a rush to meet anyone. I want to get to know those that are in my circle of friends.

From now going forward I will spend less time showing off ( it will be hard but I know I can do it ) and more time getting to know the women that intrigue me. Things have changed since my last stint here and rolling the way I did in the past just isn't possible, at least not all the time. I'm going to keep things a lot simpler this go around.

I am a very down to earth and intelligent man that enJOYs the simple pleasures in life. Every now and then I won't be able to deny my nature in wanting to show off. I like attention sometimes too.

I can get along with anybody and always try to keep a woman's feelings in mind.

I try to be as clear as possible in my conversation but my bluntness can sometimes be misunderstood. If I say something to you and you feel as though you can take it in a positive or negative way. Take it in the positive way. Believe me, If I meant it in a negative way you would definitely know it.

I really love pets and they seem to love me too. I think they can be excellent judges of character and someone with a pet that adores their human is a big turn on.

I like being outdoors even if I'm just around the house. I like a lot of greenery in my surroundings even though I'm a born and raised city boy.

I'm a patriot! Even at my age I would still gladly give my life if it meant this country would be better off.
Pride for my country is in my blood.

I could go on and on but some things you'll have to find out from a more personal interaction. One last last thing I feel you should know. If we ever spend time together I will protect you, I will provide for you, and I will give you lots of affection. That's just the way I am.

If I interest you enough I know you will make contact.

Take care and I hope that you find whatever it is you seek.
My Ideal Person Ideal? No one will be ideal but here goes.

A woman that's highly intelligent and knows it.
A woman close to my height and weight.
A woman that can please me with her words whether written or spoken.
A woman that's healthy and has an abundance of energy.
A woman that's outgoing and comfortable with public displays of affection.
A woman that has a great sense of humor and can make ME laugh.
A woman that genuinely cares about me and my well being.
A woman with great culinary skills.
A woman that is available physically and emotionally.
A woman that has class but will always be my freak.
A sexy Libra woman. They know why.


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Why Im called the KING
Posted:Nov 30, 2011 1:15 pm
Last Updated:Mar 21, 2019 12:40 pm
41509 Views
11/30/2011 4:15 pm
Mainly because I know more about the site than the average member but primarily because I know the importance of points and how to obtain them. Well at least before they changed the layout again. This is the second site design change in a year and a half. I'm still trying to figure out how to take advantage of site glitches but haven't been very successful yet.

I'm just getting started with this blogging thing but will get better in short order. Any advice will be appreciated.

Six months after writing this post I took a five year break from the site.
A change to my first blog entry seemed appropriate.


It's coming up on six years since I first wrote the above and things have changed a lot since then.
In 2017 points have a entirely different status. More people know the value of points than in 2011. I consider points as site currency and you should to. If you can use points to purchase products and site features instead of using cash, they definitely have value.
There are a lot more things you can do with points as well. More site features are point dependent. There is even a Top Fan and Top Bidder deal that's point dependent.


Getting points and spending or giving away points are the things I like to do the most when I'm on the site next to flirting..

How can I not be a part of both of those deals?

I'm someone that loves to use my knowledge of the site and apply it in the use of site features to obtain points. .A lot of points.

I'm confident that there is only one person on this site that could earn more points than me. The Points Fairy

I plan to be #1in both of those games and have a lot of fun in the process.

3 Comments
What can a standard member actually see if they look at a profile that has standard contacts.
Posted:Nov 14, 2017 9:42 am
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2017 10:06 am
37511 Views

I was wondering this after reading a blog post earlier today. The person was a standard member and said in the post that they could see the person's pictures and videos.

I'm wondering if this is true and if you have standard contacts as a site feature if you know what a standard member can and can't see on a profile?

I thought it was impossible for a standard member to see videos.

A cut and paste from the site.

Standard Contacts (1 Month)
Allow other standard members to view and reply to your messages, initiate communications with you, and view your complete profile.


GO RAVENS!!!!
20 Comments
The KINGs Bling Easy Access For Standard members.
Posted:Dec 5, 2017 12:46 pm
Last Updated:Mar 24, 2018 6:47 pm
37043 Views


7 Comments
Different degrees of separation
Posted:Feb 27, 2018 4:40 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2019 12:28 pm
34916 Views

I will have been separated for nine years on March 2nd 2018.
During this time I have not talked to my wife and have only seen her once from a distance.

I recently had a conversation with a member from this site about my marital status.
She kept emphasizing that I was technically still married and that I was cheating if I had sex with other women. She also inquired as to why I didn't just get a divorce.

I let this member know that if I had any intentions on getting back together with her that I would have at least talked to her since I left. I haven't gotten a divorce because the step would benefit financially if something happened to me.
Also, I paid for everything that had anything to do with our wedding.
If she wants a divorce before the step are grown she can pay for it.

My question for anyone that cares to comment is.....

Are there different degrees of separation to you?
47 Comments
2018 The Year Of The Woman?
Posted:Feb 11, 2018 10:49 am
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2019 4:15 pm
34927 Views
Well it needs to be in the US since more than half of you didn't vote for the first ever female Presidential nominee.

Someone that arguably was the the most qualified person ever to run for President.
WTF were y'all thinking?
Hell I voted for her and she didn't even show any skin during the election. NONE!!

Yes I blame you, women of the United States for allowing the worst person ever to be placed into the White House.



The only thing that will make me feel better is for you, the women of Fuck Mates to upload more ass pictures. Lots more!
I want to see so much ass that I'll be tempted to write a blog post complaining about it.

As for all the women of Fuck Mates that don't live in the United States, upload more ass pictures too!


15 Comments
Profile 4 point 1
Posted:Feb 1, 2018 2:45 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2019 12:28 pm
35393 Views

Introduction

01 FEB 2018 4.1

Some blogs I like.
Erotic Picture Book
[blog BiggLala]
♥ Sperm Harvester Chronicle ♥
♥ ♥ ♥ Stranger Than Fiction...
[blog Zara_thustra]

First some bullet points up front:

Don't fuck with my friends.
You don't want me coming for your ass!


I am 100% percent HETEROSEXUAL.
This means I am only interested in sexual activities with a woman.
Hmm! Maybe two. LOL!!!


I've been around long enough to know what I like.



Trust me there is nothing you can say or do that will change that.

I don't consider pictures of my dick pornography, I call it art!
That shit should be in a frame! In some places it is. HAHA!!!

I love getting photo comments and responding! If you aren't a woman don't hold your breath for a response. Sorry.

My videos are almost entirely just music I like. It's an idea I came up with years ago. Some are more like music videos I made with and about special friends I had on the site. Most of them were made years ago but I will hopefully post more soon. I need some inspiration.

I hardly ever remember to log off so if you see that it shows me online at say 4am I'm probably sleeping. The fucked up part is it could show me as being offline but I'm not.

Now the KING has BLING! Some of it is that big old school shit you can't make anymore. I will make more. I gifted a lot of it. You will have to check your bling
manager to see it.
COP THAT!!! All porn bling is free.


I disabled the friends invite option on my profile. I'll have to send you one.
No offense but the word friend has a different meaning to me. Yes even on this website. It's not being a random picture on someone's profile.
That being said, I might send you a friends invite just because your ass is PHAT and I want it on my profile. I'll get to know you later.

I don't need to be discrete about using this website. If you see me on the street it is okay to say hello. Just don't ask me to pull me dick out if you are a male.

To the fine ass wives out there, if you can leave your husband at home.
Just tell him I'll send you back in one piece with plenty of video for him to jerk off to.
If you can't, "No soup for you!

If you don't have at least some recent pictures or any at all of yourself on your profile and/or you still haven't bothered to fill it out LEAVE ME ALONE!
Shadow people are creepy and basically I will ignore you! I mean come on, give me something to work with.

I mostly just check out women who have been checking me out and always browse in private. Life around here is much easier that way.

I love beautiful women and I'm a HUGE flirt! If I'm checking you out and like what I see I will let you know I was there. If I write something, I mean it! If this will be a problem, block me completely. BLOCK ME NOW!
You can still look at me though. Come back as often as you like. Don't worry It will be our little secret.

I'm here for the ladies but in 2017 and beyond I promise to be a kinder more gentle KING. A KING for all members!

And finally... Damn, I haven't even gotten started yet.

If you are just here to perv my pictures, go for it!

If you are intrigued and want to know more, please continue.

You should know right from the beginning that the main reason for me being here has always been to socialize and flirt with beautiful and intriguing women from all over the world. I know that meeting some of those women will be a natural result of my actions. You could say that I am polyamorous online when it comes to this site but monogamous offline. I'll never be in a rush to meet anyone. I want to get to know those that are in my circle of friends.

From now going forward I will spend less time showing off ( it will be hard but I know I can do it ) and more time getting to know the women that intrigue me. Things have changed since my last stint here and rolling the way I did in the past just isn't possible, at least not all the time. I'm going to keep things a lot simpler this go around.

I am a very down to earth and intelligent man that enJOYs the simple pleasures in life. Every now and then I won't be able to deny my nature in wanting to show off. I like attention sometimes too.

I can get along with anybody and always try to keep a woman's feelings in mind.

I try to be as clear as possible in my conversation but my bluntness can sometimes be misunderstood. Being misunderstood is a constant problem for me. If I say something to you and you feel as though you can take it in a positive or negative way, take it in the positive way. Believe me, If I meant it in a negative way you would definitely know it.

I really love pets and they seem to love me too. I think they can be excellent judges of character and someone with a pet that adores their human is a big turn on.

I like being outdoors even if I'm just around the house. I like a lot of greenery in my surroundings even though I'm a born and raised city boy.

I'm a patriot! Even at my age I would still gladly give my life if it meant this country would be better off.
Pride for my country is in my blood.


I could go on and on but some things you'll have to find out from a more personal interaction. One last last thing I feel you should know. If we ever spend time together I will protect you, I will provide for you, and I will give you lots of affection. That's just the way I am.

If I interest you enough I know you will make contact.

Take care and I hope that you find whatever it is you seek.

My Ideal Person

Ideal?
I don't expect anyone to be ideal but if all of the following applies to you

A woman that's highly intelligent and knows it.
A woman close to my height and weight.
A woman that can please me with her words whether written or spoken.
A woman that's healthy and has an abundance of energy.
A woman that's outgoing and comfortable with public displays of affection.
A woman that has a great sense of humor and can make ME laugh.
A woman that genuinely cares about me and my well being.
A woman with great culinary skills.
A woman that is available physically and emotionally.
A woman that has class but will always be my freak.
A woman with an ass that stops traffic and causes accidents.
A sexy Libra woman. They know why.
A redhead. They know why too.






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2 Comments
How long do I have to wait?
Posted:Jan 30, 2018 5:26 pm
Last Updated:Apr 5, 2019 9:15 am
35241 Views

That question is mostly directed towards the female membership of this site but males feel free to comment.

How long do you expect to wait to get a reply to an email you send to a male member of this site?

I ask because I was recently blocked by a female member for apparently not answering their email fast enough. They seemed to be upset that it took me over 24 hours to respond to their two word email so they let me know about their displeasure before blocking me from responding. That's not the first time this has happened.

I asked a few female friends and associates and they told me with few exceptions that they get replies to their emails in less than an hour.

I personally expect all my emails to be answered within two hours.
19 Comments
One word insults.
Posted:Jan 8, 2018 4:33 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2019 12:28 pm
38813 Views
Do they bother you? <<<<< QUESTION



I personally expect a whole paragraph when someone wants to insult me.

A one word insult just seems lazy to me. I mean fuck man be original. HAHA!!!!

This is not a post for sympathy but just to let some members know that no one is immune.

Not even.........

33 Comments
A question for those members that have an icebreakers membership.
Posted:Dec 26, 2017 12:25 pm
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2019 4:15 pm
38525 Views

What happens when it ends?

The reason I ask is because with the help of a friend I discovered a way to extend the date the gold membership they give you expires.
I'm sure it may not be a secret but I don't believe it is common knowledge.

I want to share this information because I got a beef with the site.
I always have a beef with the site. HAHAHA!!!!



Tell me!

GO RAVENS!!!!!!!



19 Comments
A random act of kindness rewarded.
Posted:Dec 14, 2017 10:56 am
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2018 2:03 pm
38538 Views
I give points away all the time.

Not as much as I did before the site changed the benefits for VIP membership but still do ntheless.

I really enjoy giving points to standard members with Confirm ID so they can upgrade.
When I have a lot of points I search for these type of members so I can give them some.
It's my way of giving the middle finger to the site and saving some at the same time.

Anyway, some that I gave points to upgrade sent me an email with pictures of a gift card.

Fifty fucking bucks! They told me that they would do it but I forgot all about it.

I was speechless when I saw it. I tried to talk them out of it but apparently they had a great year financially and wanted to return the generosity.

Unfucking believable!

It really made my day.

A question I will ask of any that cares to comment......

Have you ever been unexpectedly rewarded for a random act of kindness?

How did it make you feel?

Sometimes being the KING has it's rewards!

Not the actual card
25 Comments
I CANT BELIEVE THIS FUCKING SHIT!!!
Posted:Dec 7, 2017 7:34 pm
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2019 12:24 am
37125 Views
That's usually what I say when some site function doesn't work properly.

The worst is when the email system doesn't work properly. WTF!!!

The site recently changed the benefits associated with having a VIP membership.
I blogged about it. Say it aint so

My VIP membership was expiring 5 days after I got that email from the site I list in the other post. I was confused as to when exactly the change would take place. I called CS and they told me that I would get another email stating when exactly it would happen.

I wanted that info I got from CS in writting so I went to the site support blog and got the following response.

SiteSupport replies on 10/28/2017 2:07 pm:
JuggsyMalone,

Thank you for your post. Removing the feature was a result from members feedback about the program. We understand that you're unhappy with the changes so I sent a feedback/suggestion on your behalf to the appropriate team for consideration.

Let us know if you need anything else.

Regards,
Sitesupport

I wonder who these members were.
I'm sorry but I don't believe that.

When exactly will this change take effect?
What will the site do to compensate those members that paid for the membership before the announced changes?

Please send a feedback/suggestion on my behalf as well.

Please answer my questions here and not in an email.

SiteSupport replies on 10/31/2017 9:14 pm:
bigblackman21221

Thanks for your comment on our blog. The decision to not free flowers to for VIP members was a corporate decision. We were not told what members may have complained just that it was this way going forward. The change has already taken effect and premium members on the site will now be awarded free monthly points instead. I have submitted your feedback to our development as you have requested as well.

Thanks
Derek


Now since my membership was still good and I still had the same features I decided I would renew the VIP membership but let it expire first.
Before I gave up the cash I wanted further clarification and called CS again.
I was told that if I didn't get a letter from the site I would keep the same benefits if I renewed. So I did.

Four days later it ended and I could no longer send free flowers.
Those BASTARDS got me!

At the time I wasn't that upset about it because I felt like I got my money's worth even though it was only four days. However, I also felt like "DAMN, as soon as I get this shit they wanna change it!"

For me having VIP was like having a credit card with no limit and only a thirty dollar monthly payment. I could even get cash out of the virtual ATM. What a deal!

When that VIP membership was about to end I noticed that the site didn't give me the 500 points as stated as part of their changes.

Feeling like the site was trying to get over on me I complained in writing and got the following response.

Fuck Mates
Dec 1 (6 days ago)

to me
Dear Member,

Thank you for contacting us.

We have reviewed your issue and have determined that you had renewed on 11/03/2017 prior to our policy change on 11/09/2017. As a result, you currently do not qualify for the 500 points for renewing perk. You do however have our older perk of being able to send unlimited flowers until your next renewal period after which you will begin to receive 500 points for renewing your VIP membership.

Please let us know if we can assist you with any further questions.

Regards,

Aldo C.
Customer

Really?

Based on the above info before this response from the site,

How would you handle this situation?

Do you think I should be compensated?

If so, what would be fair?







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