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'People who liked my profile, also like....'
Posted:Aug 6, 2016 7:15 pm
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2017 6:17 pm
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Another WTF moment...

On the right side of my blog page is a list of blogs that is titled 'People who liked this blog, also liked...'
Top of the list of blogs that people liked in addition to mine was...

drum roll please....

The Sexy S D...

yep, our blogs are soooo similar in nature that I am not surprised in the least that anyone who enjoys reading my blogs, also enjoys Sexy S D's blog...

nothing against the Sexy S D....

However, our blogs are on opposite sides of the blogging planet....opposite sides of the known universe....mars vs venus....black and white.....
Perhaps people on this site are more....divergent...than I thought...

But I kinda don't think so.

Just more evidence that this site does things that make you wanna go hmmmm? or at least...wtf?

Smart assy mood tonight lol
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71 members viewed my profile?
Posted:Aug 6, 2016 5:36 pm
Last Updated:Aug 7, 2016 6:35 pm
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Are you kidding me? And that notification just popped up...it wasn't there five minutes ago....

Are you kidding me? They see I am 61 years old and they still clicked on my profile to view it? 71 people?

And the only men who contact me are a 38 year old guy who will be at Seatac airport for an hour, so do I want to meet up for some fun oral?
Sure thing, dude!
He pays for gold membership (I assume he paid for it) yet he does not read profiles before sending out messages...or maybe he reads them but doesn't care about spending the five minutes to cut and paste the same message to me that he sends to hundreds of others that show up as fairly close to Seatac airport.

I know, I know...some of you reading this will say 'take the offer!' You take the offer lol It's just not my thing. Sometimes I wish I could but, it's just not me and I am not gonna change that part of who I am.

But 71 people? And all I get are mails from guys who are not even close to what I say I am interested in, in my profile.

What a boost to the ego, gotta say lol

Or maybe the site is just messing with me, inflating the numbers to make me want to spend money on the site.

Not sure which is worse lol

C'est la vie.
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71 members viewed my profile?
Posted:Aug 6, 2016 5:35 pm
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 12:1 pm
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Are you kidding me? And that notification just popped up...it wasn't there five minutes ago....

Are you kidding me? They see I am 61 years old and they still clicked on my profile to view it? 71 people?

And the only men who contact me are a 38 year old guy who will be at Seatac airport for an hour, so do I want to meet up for some fun oral?
Sure thing, dude!
He pays for gold membership (I assume he paid for it) yet he does not read profiles before sending out messages...or maybe he reads them but doesn't care about spending the five minutes to cut and paste the same message to me that he sends to hundreds of others that show up as fairly close to Seatac airport.

I know, I know...some of you reading this will say 'take the offer!' You take the offer lol It's just not my thing. Sometimes I wish I could but, it's just not me and I am not gonna change that part of who I am.

But 71 people? And all I get are mails from guys who are not even close to what I say I am interested in, in my profile.

What a boost to the ego, gotta say lol

Or maybe the site is just messing with me, inflating the numbers to make me want to spend money on the site.

Not sure which is worse lol

C'est la vie.
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Anyone want to argue? or is it a passionate discussion?
Posted:Aug 6, 2016 5:25 pm
Last Updated:Aug 10, 2016 4:28 am
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I'll be the smart ass and you be the butt head

Sometimes, I just want to have a good, old-fashioned, fun argument...nothing mean, nothing bigoted, just good clean fun...well, doesn't even have to be clean lol this is a sex site, after all.

What is the difference between an argument and a discussion, btw? Maybe I mean a passionate discussion rather than an argument...

The problem I run into is....I am not into politics....I can't bring up names and album information to save my life though if you give me a song title (from my era...you know, back in the stone age) and I play it on you-tube, I can probably tell you exactly where I was when I first heard that song and who I was with....

I can argue religion, to a point...I was raised Catholic but don't remember many details from the Bible...and if you put me down for my spiritual beliefs, such as they are, I will be in your face like that (snaps my fingers for effect). Politely, of course. I am almost always polite. I will never put anyone down for their beliefs unless...well, that's a subject best saved for private as it can get deep.

Deep is good in a few very specific instances, yes?

I only watch the Mariners and the Seahawks but cannot site stats....sooo not into stats.

Sometimes I can remember names of actors in movies, sometimes not...that's hit or miss ... fun to argue the likes and dislikes between two opposing views tho!

Even a passionate discussion about serious shit...though then the smart ass and butt head hats usually get pulled off and wrung into a tight little ball during said discussion...until I say something smart assy or you say something totally butt headed and the hats go back on...whew! Safe!

Does alcohol help bring out your butt headedness or smart assiness? If the answer is yes, have a beer....if not, have a root beer....cuz a mean drunk is not allowed in this passionate, fun discussion....

Do you ever feel like just getting into it with someone? And no, I'm not talking sex...though we could if you want to....actually, that is not a bad idea. lol

Ok, have rambled enough for this nice Saturday early evening....

Here's hoping you readers do something nice for yourselves....we all deserve that.
Reminds me...I need to look on the net for that toy....
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Not quite myself this weekend...
Posted:Jul 30, 2016 2:02 pm
Last Updated:Aug 2, 2016 7:15 am
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I have a chat friend...from this site though we also know each other through a gaming site and the y place....i haven't heard from him in almost three days and that is very much not like him. Our mutual chat friends in the game are also worried about him. He was last on this site on the 28th.

He lives in southern california and the last I heard from him, he was suffering with the 115 degree heat. One of his two ac units hasn't worked for awhile and I don't think the one that does work keeps up with keeping things tolerable in those high heats.
I have left a message this morning with his brother but, due to the nature of his brother's business, that message may not be heard until Monday.
If something bad has happened, I don't want to add to it by pressing to get hold of his brother...so I must sit tight. On Monday, if I have not heard from the brother, I can call his office during regular business hours to hopefully reach him in person.

If my chat friend is just on vacation though...I'm gonna kill him lol (j/k...my smart ass comes out in times of stress)

I'm gonna go try to de-stress a little here....remember to just breathe
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Let you feel my love....apologies to Bob Dylan
Posted:Jul 28, 2016 5:48 pm
Last Updated:Jul 29, 2016 9:38 am
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When the rain is blowin' in your face
And the whole world is on your case
I could offer you a warm embrace
To make you feel my love.

When the evening shadows and the stars appear
And there is no one there to dry your tears
I could hold you for a million years
To make you feel my love.

I know you haven't made your mind up yet
But I would never do you wrong
I've known it from the moment that we met
No doubt in my mind where you belong.

I'd go hungry, I'd go black and blue
I'd go crawlin' down the avenue
No, there's nothin' that I wouldn't do
To make you feel my love.

The storms are raging on the rollin' sea
And on the highway of regrets
The winds of change are blowing wild and free
You ain't seen nothin' like me yet.

I could make you happy, make your dreams come true
There's nothing that I would not do
Go to the ends of the Earth for you
To make you feel my love.

Bob Dylan

When I heard these words and this song.....twice in the last two days...I decided it was a sign that I needed to blog about it.
lol
but seriously, as I processed the words, it did reveal who I am...who I still am. I love the melody. And the words, of course, are core to me.

However, my first feelings when hearing these words are negative. No, I want to shout out, to the whole world, No! No matter how hard you try, you cannot MAKE someone feel your love.
Yep, that's me lol Much as I try, I do have baggage. You can't live life and not have baggage. I try very hard not to let it influence my life but, obviously, it still is there, lurking. I swat it away like an annoying mosquito...because...

it is my second...and lasting feelings that bring a smile to my face. It is, after all, a love song. It tells a story of how deeply you love someone. Perhaps the words should be 'Let you feel my love' rather than 'Make you feel my love'. Yeah, I don't think Bob Dylan would mind if I made that one slight adjustment to his beautiful words. It tells the same story, eh?

Sometimes, the one you fall in love with, doesn't love you back. That doesn't stop me from knowing that I am the kind of person who will always love as completely as Bob Dylan describes in this song. It's just who I am. It can hurt but, in the end, I am who I am and someday, maybe...someone will be lucky enough to feel my love...and they will love me back just as completely.

Hope floats.
Have a great day.
Ciya when I ciya
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Taking that cold shower...
Posted:Jul 28, 2016 9:53 am
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2017 6:19 pm
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Well, actually not cold....cool. When the temps reach the triple digits (or even high 90's for pacific nw natives), a soak in a tub of cool water is just about heaven. You can feel your body relax almost instantly...close your eyes and you are on a beach in hawaii, laying at the water's edge, letting the cool ocean waves drift over you, slide away to let the warm sun bathe your skin, then the ocean water drifts over you again, cooling your warmed skin.
Cool water on a hot day can invigorate, bring you back to life...in many ways



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Icebreakers...a question for the women...and the men
Posted:Jul 11, 2016 7:54 am
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2016 2:40 pm
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If you currently have free gold because you are participating in the Icebreakers Program...would you give up your free gold to stop participating in that program?

The Icebreaker messages go to new standard members who can't read the Icebreaker message...but they can read the pop-up message that the site attaches to the Icebreaker message, to upgrade so they can read the Icebreaker message...and all other messages.

What do you think would happen if most of the women protested the fact that the site is using the Icebreaker Program to entice new members to upgrade to gold by backing out of the Icebreaker program?
I think the site would then just create more fake profiles to automatically contact new members instead of the women participating in the Icebreaker program.
I don't think the site would just sit back and say 'oh well', when the Icebreaker numbers dropped substantially.
What do you think?
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When no answer...is the answer
Posted:Jul 4, 2016 6:27 pm
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2016 1:14 am
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Do other people have this experience? You ask a question of someone...a friend, a significant other, a spouse....where distance is a factor....and you get no response. And you finally realize....that no answer, is the answer? Or am I the only lucky one? lol C'est la vie. What do you do to get past the frustration? Inquiring minds would love to know

(I was going to post a sexy picture here, just for the fun of it...but my internet is not yet working after the move on my regular pc, where all my pics are stored...all I have is this laptop. Next time, I promise

Happy and safe 4th of July, everyone!
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Movin on down...
Posted:Jul 3, 2016 7:19 pm
Last Updated:Jul 4, 2016 2:23 pm
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The move yesterday was pretty brutal but we all lived lol Slept great last night! I am in awe at how quiet it is in the new place....we have a green belt on two sides of the house that is 400 acres long. From my upstairs bedroom and craft room, I have a peaceful view of the woos and sky out of huge windows that open for a fresh breeze...I can hear the birds...last night was frogs and crickets...a little traffic but it's very faint. When I sit outside, I am reminded of the scent of fir trees when out camping. Move has been hardest on my as he took on a lot of the responsibility for the move and for getting all the electronics set up. And, we haven't been able to find his prescription meds for pulled muscles. I'm wondering if one of the young movers spotted the bottle on the kitchen counter at the old place and grabbed it when no one was around...it was very hectic, with everyone going in and out constantly. I'm hoping that we will just find the bottle in some box in a corner here.
We still have some stuff at the old place that we will have to move with the cars. And lots of cleaning lol That will be next weekend.
For now, I have 5 days to unpack the rest of my stuff, get organized and get out to explore those woods behind the house. I think the two who used to live here built a little very rough fort out of saplings they found on the forest floor. They put them on end and leaned them up against a large cedar tree, creating a shelter of sorts. They scooped out the dirt under the lean-to, making a little bowl shape. They must not have liked to sit on the cedar boughs that naturally cover the floor of the forest.
I was thinking of a blog by KtMnDu where he described some of the sentimental things he found in the place he recently moved to: a fort the had made, the height markings on a door frame, etc. Houses today come so scrubbed clean...it's expected to look like no one has ever lived there...brand-spanking new. And I can understand that. Being a Capricorn though, it also makes me sad to think such memories get wiped away. On the surface anyway. Memories have a way of sticking with us...the good, the bad and the ugly
Be good, have fun...and take time to stop and smell the roses.
Until next time....
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Way too serious lol
Posted:Jul 1, 2016 2:19 am
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2016 7:30 pm
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Yes, I admit it, I am way too serious...in general but most especially, when it comes to relationships with the opposite sex.

I have tried very hard to leave my baggage way, way, way behind me lol and I think I've done a pretty good job of not letting past experiences dictate how I do things now in my life.

Most of the time, I am happy-go-lucky, friendly, up for a good chat and lots of fun. There are times when that can get a bit serious. It's a momentary lapse of sanity though and it, too, will pass. Reflection is a good thing, however; keeps you real. And I am very, very real. I play no games. How I feel and act is just that...nothing more, nothing less.

There has been a lot going on lately that has made me pause and reflect. And realize that I have my faults but I am not such a bad human being after all lol

Take care folks.
I am moving this weekend so I may be away from the site for a few days.
Be good, have fun
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warning! warning! This blog is about LTR's! enter at your own risk!
Posted:Jun 23, 2016 2:45 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2016 2:07 am
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just having a good laugh at life...gotta have a good sense of humor sometimes!

This is just me, rambling on my thoughts here....sipping my coffee on a rainy afternoon.

I am 61 years old. A woman of size. lol Both are reasons my pool of suitors is just about nil at the moment.

Even so, there have been a few times when a FWB status was offered..by guys I'd only chatted with for a few days and by guys I'd chatted with for a few months. And yes, their profiles did state that's what they were interested in. And no, I was not teasing them by chatting with them when I ultimately decided a FWB with them was not what I wanted. I am open to the idea and, with the right guy, it might happen.

I think it's my wanting a bit more than a FWB relationship that makes guys shy away (along with the reasons stated above). And I don't blame them if that's not what they want.

Are there no guys...local or not so local...who are interested in the same thing I am? boyfriend/girlfriend, exclusive...not just a roll in the hay until they find someone better...sighs...shakes my head as I write this...if I found someone I liked...and trusted... enough to have sex with them...and then after awhile, something happened and it just wasn't working for me anymore...I would want the freedom to cut those ties and move on...I trust in myself enough to know that, though I was cutting the ties, it was not just a roll in the hay for me.

And...what about distance when it's something like this kind of relationship someone is interested in? I would think that distance would be even less of an issue in this instance. You can use the fact that meeting face to face will take some time, affording you the time to chat and get to know the other person. Always better to be local and be able to meet face to face early on...but it's really a requirement if all you want is casual sex...not such a requirement if that's not your number one priority.

I find it hard to believe that, even on this site, there are not that many guys interested....I've blogged about this before...what are guys afraid of...and the appreciated positive responses came from guys far away...they did give me hope that some guys are interested in a friendly relationship with a woman...always hopeful it might turn into more but ok if not.

Anyways, that's what I've been thinking about recently...

Oh, and I'm working on a little erotic blog...putting to words some thoughts drifting through my mind while on a recent road trip... smiles... Spirit Lover

now...back to real life and packing for a move in a week...
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Yes, I was a bit of a bitch last night...
Posted:Jun 18, 2016 1:58 am
Last Updated:Jun 23, 2016 3:41 pm
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We all have our grumpy days and mine was last night. I don't apologize because even on my worst grumpy days, I'm still not all that bad, in my opinion. I've been around people who go off the deep end and I'm barely in the kiddie pool when I am grumpy.

That being said, I do think people tend to back away when I get in that mood. That does bother me some but I do understand. No one wants to be around someone who is a bit confrontational and argumentative. I just hope they don't stay away.
In the bestest of worlds, that someone might try to talk to me, ask me questions...to find out what might be bothering me, instead of backing off. I do understand not feeling up to that task though. Maybe I will bite their head off, I don't know lol I hope I'm not that bad.

Last night, after chatting with a couple of people, I was reminded of an old Star Trek episode where a female entity on a planet, who has no body, is shaken to her core when she hears a man choose not to interact with other human beings...she craves that skin on skin contact and that emotional connection that is there when two people touch. She cannot have that as she is just a blur, a ghosty figure. And to see someone who could have that, and who chooses not to pursue it...she just doesn't understand.
I thought of some of the people on this site. Oh, to be young again...and better looking than I am now....I know there are many reasons people are here instead of out on the town, having a good time. And I know that, even with my age and my size, I, too, could be out on the town, having a good time. Not as easily done as when I was in my 30's and 40's.
So yeah, I was jealous of the sexy ppl on this site. If I had the body they have...even with my shyness...I probably wouldn't be here....or I'd be here but would be lining up real life meet and greets.
And my jealousy showed it's evil face and I got grumpy. I do admit it. Hey, I'm human.
And that's my story for the night. Take care everyone and thanks for listening


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