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That Other Woman... Across The Room... ðŸļ  

Paulxx001 66M
8702 posts
5/21/2019 11:43 am

Last Read:
5/23/2019 8:49 pm

That Other Woman... Across The Room... ðŸļ

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She stood there... commanding her space; delicately holding a glass of white wine, in her hand. She brushed a stray hair, from her brow and looked, at that other woman, across the room. She thought to herself...

... I know, what she sees in me. It's my dress and my hair. And the diamond earnings... I'm not shy to wear. It's my shoes... which spike the floor. Is she staring in disbelief? It's so obvious, even as she tries to hide, her interest in me.

A moment before, that other woman had walked by... and paused... ever so slightly. She smelled your cologne on me. Just a faint whisper of its scent. I know. She might once, have had it smeared , on her neck and her cheek... or that humid space, between her thighs; and wherever else... you'd touched her

Yes... I thought about that. Then casually, she stepped closer, as if to chat with a friend. But it was... to measure, and challenge me. I glanced at her.... and smiled. My eyes moved up... then down. I made sure , she noticed. I never had to tell her, to fuck off .

You did that for me, dear. Unknowingly... of course. You walked by, stopped and kissed me. I held you. You kissed me again... the way you do. She stood there... mouth gaping, then... she walked away.

And there, she stands; alone... across the room. A fucking tear, in her eye. I could care...

... less.


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So...
Are you a jealous, possessive, type of person?
How many of you are tired, of answering my usual question; "Whatcha y'all gonna have for dinner?"


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Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/21/2019 11:44 am

I'm not really jealous or possessive. If I'm with someone, then I obviously trust them, right? But if another guy tries to act like I'm not there... I might step in and gingerly remind him (in a subtle way), that THIS lady, is with me. 😘


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/21/2019 11:44 am

How can I be tired of the question? I'm asking it... lol
Dinner? I don't know yet. I have leftover lasagna... I think I'll go with that. And a salad. Yep... 😊


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
5/21/2019 12:13 pm

I really enjoyed this as it happens all the time. And for me jealousy naw I quite enjoy a lady checking out my man so I can stand there and just SMILE, you have to be confidant in your relationship. As other's do hate it when you sit or stand there and smile as to say yep he's all mine. I hope you have an awesome day..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
5/21/2019 12:43 pm

Jealousy..absolutely...

Supper is simple tonight ,just hamburgers on the b-b-q


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
5/21/2019 1:03 pm

Jealous? Possessive? I don't think so but it's been a really long time since I had a man that was "mine" and with him, I never even worried about reminding someone that he was taken...he did that himself.

Looks like I'm the only tired of you asking "What's for Dinner?"
Maybe, change it up once in a while and ask what we had for breakfast. (pancakes)

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/21/2019 1:34 pm

    Quoting  :

Oh yes... I know! lol ðŸ˜ą
You blogged about it once. You knocked the guy out with one punch... or did you knock HER out? lol 😁
I love chicken and rice... hmmmm... 🍗🐔😍


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/21/2019 1:36 pm

    Quoting  :

I know... I'm pretty sure you scare them ðŸ˜ą
Heck... you scare me... lol ðŸ˜Ļ😁😍


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/21/2019 1:38 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    I really enjoyed this as it happens all the time. And for me jealousy naw I quite enjoy a lady checking out my man so I can stand there and just SMILE, you have to be confidant in your relationship. As other's do hate it when you sit or stand there and smile as to say yep he's all mine. I hope you have an awesome day..
You see this at the senior's club? omg... ðŸ˜ąðŸĪ”
True... you have to be confident... yep!
I already know what you're having for dinner. It looks soooooooo good! 😘âĪïļðŸ‘
I guess you love to cook and bake? 👌😊


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/21/2019 1:53 pm

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    Jealousy..absolutely...

    Supper is simple tonight ,just hamburgers on the b-b-q
Really? Your jealous? hmmmm...
I love bbq hamburgers. Always a winner. 👍👌


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/21/2019 1:58 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    Jealous? Possessive? I don't think so but it's been a really long time since I had a man that was "mine" and with him, I never even worried about reminding someone that he was taken...he did that himself.

    Looks like I'm the only tired of you asking "What's for Dinner?"
    Maybe, change it up once in a while and ask what we had for breakfast. (pancakes)
Each person is different... right?
Otherwise... we'd all have had pancakes this morning. 👌
I love pancakes... I change it up depending on what time of day I post.
But I'll give you a free pass. You can comment on any meal you've had... 😊
Or.... if you have another topic, ya wanna cover? ðŸĪ”


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/21/2019 2:02 pm

    Quoting  :

You? Confident? ðŸ˜ąðŸ˜˜ðŸ˜ŠðŸ‘
Who doesn't like meatloaf and garlic bread? Hmmm.. thanks for the idea.
That's the real reason I ask that question. I need ideas...
Yep... I'd say that you're pretty confident. 😊 Has your guy, ever lost it.... a bit? With another guy? ðŸ˜ą


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
5/21/2019 2:32 pm

Jealous or possessive no. I would hate for someone to be like that with me. I find its more a reflection on my partner on how he handles 'the other woman' flirting with him etc then it is on her.

Brown rice, lean pork and roasted beets. Can't get enough of roasted beets lately for some reason.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
5/21/2019 3:28 pm

Jealous or possessive? No.... I might have been when I was younger. However, now as a confident, mature woman, I don't even think about it. If I am in a committed relationship, we both know who he is going home with at the end of the night.
Dinner tonight: grilled chicken and fried rice loaded with veggies


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/21/2019 4:14 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    Jealous or possessive no. I would hate for someone to be like that with me. I find its more a reflection on my partner on how he handles 'the other woman' flirting with him etc then it is on her.

    Brown rice, lean pork and roasted beets. Can't get enough of roasted beets lately for some reason.
True... you want your partner to act classy, right?
Although I've in the middle of some trilogies...
What's with you women. You're wsy nastier than the men.. lol ðŸ˜ą
Roasted beets? Wow. I love beets but I usually eat the pickled variety. How do you skin them? That's the toughest part... Using gloves? Par Boiling?
What's your recipe? I've never done roasted. mostly because it's so difficult to get that skin off.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/21/2019 4:18 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Jealous or possessive? No.... I might have been when I was younger. However, now as a confident, mature woman, I don't even think about it. If I am in a committed relationship, we both know who he is going home with at the end of the night.
    Dinner tonight: grilled chicken and fried rice loaded with veggies
You're "confident and mature..."... oh baby. That's the way I like them... LOL... ðŸ˜ąðŸ˜˜
Another chicken gal... lol. Kool.
Grill as in BBQ? Sounds great. 👍


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/21/2019 4:23 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    Jealous or possessive no. I would hate for someone to be like that with me. I find its more a reflection on my partner on how he handles 'the other woman' flirting with him etc then it is on her.

    Brown rice, lean pork and roasted beets. Can't get enough of roasted beets lately for some reason.
Oh wait....
I goggled it. You roast it with the skin on, right?
Then it peels off... yes?


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/21/2019 6:22 pm

    Quoting  :

You won't fight for a man?
Would you push another woman away.. to get to keep your man?
Tough Q's. But I understand. 😊
That's a great dinner choice.
Kale.... that's like spinach, right? 👍


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
5/21/2019 7:14 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    True... you want your partner to act classy, right?
    Although I've in the middle of some trilogies...
    What's with you women. You're wsy nastier than the men.. lol ðŸ˜ą
    Roasted beets? Wow. I love beets but I usually eat the pickled variety. How do you skin them? That's the toughest part... Using gloves? Par Boiling?
    What's your recipe? I've never done roasted. mostly because it's so difficult to get that skin off.
I have never been mean or nasty. I dont do cat fights. He wants her, have at her, obviously he was not the man I thought he was which is on me. I am obviously hurt but I dont think fighting for someone in that type of situation will get you peace of mind about the relationship.

You can roast the beets in foil and peel the skin after cooked. However for the most part I cheat and buy the frozen pre-sliced beets. Toss in a bit of grape seed oil, salt and pepper roast and voila. I buy frozen veggies all winter. Generally cheaper. I have never been able to outsmart the chipmunks and squirrels from eating them on me from the garden.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/22/2019 5:01 am

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    I have never been mean or nasty. I dont do cat fights. He wants her, have at her, obviously he was not the man I thought he was which is on me. I am obviously hurt but I dont think fighting for someone in that type of situation will get you peace of mind about the relationship.

    You can roast the beets in foil and peel the skin after cooked. However for the most part I cheat and buy the frozen pre-sliced beets. Toss in a bit of grape seed oil, salt and pepper roast and voila. I buy frozen veggies all winter. Generally cheaper. I have never been able to outsmart the chipmunks and squirrels from eating them on me from the garden.
Good tips! Thanks... 👍


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/22/2019 5:02 am

    Quoting  :

Yes... I was just teasing you... 😊😘
Have a great Wednesday! 👍


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
5/22/2019 12:03 pm

Like BJ, it's been quite a while since I've been attached enough to someone to feel jealousy or competition. My one long term relationship, my BF was pretty hunky (6'4 and fit) and I did feel threatened by some of our female acquaintances in the biking/triathlon community.

I have this theory that whomever is more attractive in a relationship, has a slight power advantage. No more handsome guys for me! LOL.

These days I am more and more curious/interested in being in a poly mode where I am able to be involved with more than one person...if I explore that, I'll need to try to get over any jealousy tendencies.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/22/2019 12:34 pm

"... whomever is more attractive in a relationship, has a slight power advantage. No more handsome guys for me! LOL." really... Hmmm.. Interesting pov ðŸĪ” I always thought it was 50-50. But looking back, perhaps I was naive. ðŸ˜ķ
Yeah... that 6'4" guy... I can imagine some ladies being drawn to him. 😁
Well... Best of luck in your search. The voyage should be fun, right? 👍


scoupe42 60M

5/23/2019 6:45 pm

I'm not the jealous type, I dated a few women who were. if she wants someone else, I just move on, I'm not going to be # 2!


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/23/2019 8:49 pm

    Quoting scoupe42:
    I'm not the jealous type, I dated a few women who were. if she wants someone else, I just move on, I'm not going to be # 2!
Yep... I agree. I don't need the drama. 😊
Fun to watch, two cats fight though... no? lol ðŸ˜ŧ


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