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EndlessCock4u 45M

11/30/2018 9:54 am

I do but not close by


simplepleasuresz 25M

11/30/2018 10:03 am

I think the answer is generally no. I prefer something less crude but that might provide some insight into likes and fantasies. E.g. Do you like it rough? Do you like Take charge professional men in the bedroom? Crude or dirty talk may work in the heat of the moment but to get there usually requires a little more tact and class


obeonecanobeyou 63M

11/30/2018 10:08 am

nothing does i think just here for the points, thanks


bitchkitty2017 71F

11/30/2018 10:08 am

nope not for me when someone sends a crude or obnoxious message my hackles go up..I don't tolerate disrespect from anyone..Getting most of these messages from far away .Some members cant get it through their thick heads about distance...and if they are looking to get off steer your way to the last porn site you visited..lol I have had a few messages that " bet your a hot fuck" or ' do you suck cock ?" " want a young cock inside you " These are great opening lines for a whore or hooker but not moi!


OldrHarleyGuy 72M

11/30/2018 10:10 am

Being disrespectful from the beginning has never worked for me and have never done it before, but have had it done to me and seems quit frequently here lately. I"m not into those kinds of things, it takes me some time to get to know someone and usually within the first few messages or chats, I can get the feel of where it's going to end up and the direction to take. Once that's established, we can open up and get a bit raunchy if it's appropriate and then all is well, but I consider it just rude and unappropriate going straight to that point right off the get go, even if one's profile might indicate they are open to it otherwise.


Bettibenobo 68F
423 posts
11/30/2018 10:11 am

I seriously doubt it does. I automatically block when I get a crude message. I understand about getting right to the point but there's less vulgar ways of expressing that.
Blame the site. Every ad I see on here is directed at men.
Then they get the impression that they don't have to be nice or polite because the women on here are all just waiting for a random guy from out of town to message them that they want to fuck.
Even the ads for the sex games are geared towards the men.
They're always getting pleasured by a woman but don't seem to show the women getting pleasured. We're supposed to be thrilled just to be getting fucked.


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
11/30/2018 10:11 am

20 minutes free? Well, I can help you fill the first five minutes.

After that our baffies will likely be worn out.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


tinroofrusted59 64M

11/30/2018 10:23 am

have never messaged someone like that..........hell..........if they say sure wouldn't that raise a flag as well? Who says if you meet the person you will even want to fuck afterwards. Such a stupid start. What it is is a lack of creativity.


Freeonereturns 63F

11/30/2018 10:32 am

Twenty minutes?, that's just a warm up.


pytimesx 64M
988 posts
11/30/2018 10:34 am

You have to understand the source and mechanism they're using - being the internet and its anonymity. Meaning they feel empowered to be jackasses from the start because they're hidden. The former being a combination of foreigners and dumbasses that can't communicate in the real world. The people that will interest you won't have that characteristics so recognize what they are and ignore them...


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/30/2018 10:36 am

20 minutes right? Hmmm... 😶
I can't even get to the airport in 20 😑😶


pytimesx 64M
988 posts
11/30/2018 10:38 am

    Quoting  :

That's barely enough time to get started on licks
But should be enough to reach four or five orgasms.
He'll have to wait until later


pytimesx 64M
988 posts
11/30/2018 10:40 am

Agreed but a start nonetheless if he's smart enough to send her on her way with a few reasons to smile for the rest of the day


RacingQueen913 58F
112 posts
11/30/2018 10:47 am

So sad the approach most of the time here. Glad it's not just me. Good blog.


StoryGlory68 43M

11/30/2018 10:51 am

Honestly whether it works or not is really upto the individuals involved.
Some enjoy it because of the simple fact they suddenly know they are desired,
Others like it because it feels erotic to know that being married makes them valuable,
Then again others enjoy the "taboo" concept of being married or even
Sleeping with someone that is married. Not because someone is a slut or whore.
In my opinion that labeling is never a consideration or viewpoint. Just my 2 cents


Daytimer09B 55M
901 posts
11/30/2018 11:30 am

My thoughts are no one worth spending any time with would respond to those types of messages. You would really have to be hard up and desperate and most likely one of the two of you would probably have some sort of STD. If someone needs a quick hook up with a stranger they can visit the closes Swingers bar, expensive but at least you know they are there for the same reason. I imagine it would still require a little more than a "hey, wanna bang?" Just my two cents.


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/30/2018 2:02 pm

Well I'm pretty sure I've never tried that line. I liked Roofs response. Show some creativity. LOL

The only crude messages I get on here are from bots and fakes. I can't think of a lady that sent me anything that was even remotely crude as a introduction.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
11/30/2018 11:34 pm

Ya know, this DOES work for women asking MEN, quite often, and is the reason so many phishing scams work too on men. Most of us just cant refuse such an offer. And when my FWB asks it, 99% of the time I say yes!
But as to working on women when men ask, 99% of them SAY it doesnt work, but I think many are lying on this issue to protect their rep. I think there are many women who agree to it, just not as many as there are men that do.


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
12/1/2018 3:23 am

Never mind roses.......I think if he/she tries that kinda message and he/she agrees, they're more likely to be sharing something else.......something bacterial perhaps.........


ieatbeaver4 61M
231 posts
12/1/2018 5:29 am

Works for me.


HoHowdy 62M
1279 posts
12/1/2018 8:43 am

I know a guy who uses that approach, his theory is if one out of a hundred say yes he is ahead of the game. I wouldn't let him around my female relatives though.


Msmealsonheels 30F  
688 posts
12/1/2018 9:35 am

Maybe I understand.. Maybe absolutely no messages at all - are better than that kind of short one sentence mindless dribble... If there were any way to look on the positive side though, maybe in a way they are doing you a favor by showing whom they really are right away... At least you won't invest any more time in them than just a moment - before you find out what they are really about..


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
12/1/2018 10:07 am

Happy Saturday hun and NO it surely doesn't work for me it either gets a NICE BITCH response or gets deleted.. I hope your enjoying your weekend and staying nice and warm..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


CampoGirl 57F
43434 posts
12/2/2018 12:59 pm

20 minutes wont be enough lol

I know I get those, and then 1 asking me to have a baby with him!!! I kid you not! And then their are the pantie buyers.. Thats a tame email ya go compared to the INDIA blog for sure! Renting out apartment and daughter to americans. GRRR THat one turned my tummy and got reported to the authorities. I was worried about the kid!

Now on my Blog: 👄 New Pictures 👓


pytimesx 64M
988 posts
12/2/2018 8:15 pm

Here are some examples of handles that validate the sites marketing and likely accounts for the approach by men simple promised they'd get laid. A lingering question would be do these users enter with this mindset or is it developed as a result of the site failing to provide on its promises.

bang me suk u
A li bj for you
Fuck me hrd
asian grp girl
1 xpnsvh bt 2 hav

bitchkitty
Hottrampt
SlutWife
DatingWifey
(seriously, what type of man wants to date or even hook up with a bitch, slut, tramp or a married/attached woman. Probably not the type of man most women would engage in conversation and certainly users I ignore all together)

and then there's...
LeilaDukes1
Naughty hotwife poll... When is it acceptable to begin fucking random men after becoming a mom?

The latter seems more like a post generated by the site - but who knows! Notwithstanding any playful intent, these types of names/handles are degrading and exude certain characteristics that are more inviting/empowering than the average female user cares for. Which for the typical male user (as marketed by the site) act to define a general consensus about female users. Despite the sites marketing approach and effort to solicit money from paying members, one has to recognize the general absence of class in the men that use these types of come-on's.


freelove4u6969 46M
17 posts
12/6/2018 12:20 pm

It works occasionaly but not often.


77BICOCK55 42M
10 posts
12/8/2018 11:34 pm

So I've had an experience or 4 in this field. 1st pointing out there are exceptions to every theory. That being said this work a few ( I may not make them all), ways: A benefit friend, while just hanging at a house party, while courting, when with friends but they leave you alone with just one other. However it's does not work: being a perv, pick up line, having bad hygiene, being needed!! I'm sure there are more yet in the end I believe this is good laid base fir the subject at hand. I hope I given some type of perspective. Very cool topic happym; happyf;


4now4later4fun 43M
1 post
12/9/2018 12:27 am

Hello ,out there. My comment being seen,I'm not upgraded


Daddycanpleaseu 60M

12/14/2018 1:39 am

Don't even work very well with wife or girlfriend these days.


AsianJ11 49F

12/16/2018 3:42 pm

OMG....hope you don't get the breakdown I got when I posted and wondered why someone would want to meet me not knowing what I look like or my name.....hahaha....I mean...he chewed me a new asshole!!!


AsianJ11 49F

12/16/2018 3:44 pm

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    20 minutes free? Well, I can help you fill the first five minutes.

    After that our baffies will likely be worn out.
You can give 5 minutes......winner...winner!!!!!!! YES!!!!! Lol


Yourusaul 53M

12/17/2018 6:02 am

Good question, i think it depends on the person but i am old school and i believe in chatting first to get to know someone first but if a women sent me a message like that i would be all on it just saying


jg22777 44T

12/18/2018 11:58 pm

I get those all the time along with the standard dick pic. Usually i read the message too late or they wont host so , not it never really works. The attention is nice sometimes. Ha ha ha


itsjustfn929 36M

12/19/2018 9:18 am

i find it rather disrespectful to not even make and attempt to know the person or even meet in person before an erotic encounter


silk_petal_rose 60F  
2363 posts
12/23/2018 2:02 pm

I get them often.......I just reply with crude,rude,man get lost..........and that seems to do the trick.

silky...


descreetfun42 61M
143 posts
12/24/2018 11:00 am

I think first contact should be respectful and work into developing something. being crude or rude first up doesnt really work for me..


GymTimePlus 50M

12/25/2018 10:06 pm

I'd jump at the chance if some chick messaged me that she wants to fuck!


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