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Just leaving a comment to get points.....
Just leaving a comment to get points..... Look, I get it. You're pissed off! Everything on here is changing and you don't want to have to for what you think will be an effortless hookup. But, here's the thing.... A lot of people on here use their blog as a social outlet, a way to meet new friends, and in a lot of cases, as an emotional outlet to express the secrets they can't reveal in 'real life'. While I know that we are all guaranteed the right to freedom of speech, how about we not flash that "I'm an uncaring Douche Bag" badge by stating 'I'm only here to get ' and maybe, just maybe, actually read a little of the post and state something worthwhile. Death in the family? I'd much prefer 'wow, that sucks' to a 3 sentence diatribe on why Fuck Mates is fucked and the system blows. Whatever you are trying to make is lost by doing this. You are not bitching to the right people. One last thing for all you earners there.... There is a limit to how many you can earn. What will be your back up plan when you have met that limit? |
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Leaving a comment to get points lol
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2/17/2020 10:13 pm |
Leaving a comment to get points lol
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I'm here for pussy not points beautiful, but I can see what you mean. I just want to get laid over and over again. A gang * by a group of women is very appealing to me, but I can't see it ever happening from here I think. Fancy hooking up for a bit of fun?
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I am here purely for fun, anything else is a bonus. I chat in groups, I read some profiles,watch the occasional cam and even on occasions cam myself. Life is short. Dont worry, be happy! P.S. Aint I cute??
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I leave a comment to hopefully have it read ,,not to earn points ,lol what can I get for2 points ?
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I leave a comment to hopefully have it read ,,not to earn points ,lol what can I get for2 points ?
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I am here purely for fun, anything else is a bonus. I chat in groups, I read some profiles,watch the occasional cam and even on occasions cam myself. Life is short. Dont worry, be happy! P.S. Aint I cute??
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2/16/2020 9:37 pm |
I'm here for pussy not points beautiful, but I can see what you mean. I just want to get laid over and over again. A gang * by a group of women is very appealing to me, but I can't see it ever happening from here I think. Fancy hooking up for a bit of fun?
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2/16/2020 4:04 pm |
i read the post and some of the comments and il post something relevenant based on that most of the times. as for the back up plan? easy enough just make another profile wym
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Ha yes, it's as if they don't really want people to meet...
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Ha yes, it's as if they don't really want people to meet...
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Points well taken.
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2/12/2020 3:37 pm |
Points well taken.
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2/11/2020 10:50 pm |
agreed
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Big -$$$- does not make this online thing real or easy. It is all a crap shoot with them and have tried a few over the years. It is a way for someone to make money and some are shady.
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Comment if you read the blog and have something usefull to say points for doing so are a bonus
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Comment if you read the blog and have something usefull to say points for doing so are a bonus
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Big -$$$- does not make this online thing real or easy. It is all a crap shoot with them and have tried a few over the years. It is a way for someone to make money and some are shady.
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my back up plan is to buy points or pay for gold membership. thats id and i read blogs infind interestng
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2/10/2020 11:31 am |
my back up plan is to buy points or pay for gold membership. thats id and i read blogs infind interestng
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That is a huge frustration of mine.... appearing online when you are not. It's a guessing game.... Are they avoiding me? Not interested?? Not really online??? I end up thinking the worst.
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Agreed, but people are going to do what they do. Let them bitch. No one likes complainers. Makes the rest of its look better... lol
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Agreed, but people are going to do what they do. Let them bitch. No one likes complainers. Makes the rest of its look better... lol
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2/6/2020 2:30 am |
I’m still trying to redeem my points for a new coffee maker...*shrug*
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Sneaky
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If I deleted my account and started a new one,can I get a new start on points???
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1/29/2020 2:38 am |
If I deleted my account and started a new one,can I get a new start on points??? needsumluvn
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1/28/2020 9:49 pm |
While cant people just do what this site is meant for, that being meet and fuck. My cock is always hungry. Have a great day beautiful x
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They have changed a lot
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I agree with that 100%. I don't do much chatting on here, so I'm not that worried about points, but I think the points should only be redeemed with a response.
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I did not know you got points for commenting on a blog. I agree that this site has taken away many things that you have to pay for now so it seems like it will survive.
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I guess to bypass the points...is to become a full Fuck Mates member.
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1/20/2020 8:07 am |
I did not know you got points for commenting on a blog. I agree that this site has taken away many things that you have to pay for now so it seems like it will survive.
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1/20/2020 7:45 am |
I guess to bypass the points...is to become a full Fuck Mates member.
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Thanks for sharing this PSA Blogging is what has kept me here since 2014 I like to read and comment on posts, oftentimes, I will share song lyrics I don't have or want a huge following I understand the dilemma the women are faced with on the site a blessing and a curse with the overwhelming ratios of men to women from my perspective, I take a "quid-pro-quo" approach, if you read and comment on my posts, I do the same, if not, well, such is life that tends to reduce the noise and, if there are comments that don't add value, you can always delete and/or block I'll leave this one Neil Diamond - "Song Sung Blue" Song sung blue Everybody knows one Song sung blue Every garden grows one Me and you are subject to the blues now and then But when you take the blues and make a song You sing them out again Sing them out again Song sung blue Weeping like a willow Song sung blue Sleeping on my pillow Funny thing, but you can sing it with a cry in your voice And before you know, it get to feeling good You simply got no choice
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Thanks for sharing this PSA Blogging is what has kept me here since 2014 I like to read and comment on posts, oftentimes, I will share song lyrics I don't have or want a huge following I understand the dilemma the women are faced with on the site a blessing and a curse with the overwhelming ratios of men to women from my perspective, I take a "quid-pro-quo" approach, if you read and comment on my posts, I do the same, if not, well, such is life that tends to reduce the noise and, if there are comments that don't add value, you can always delete and/or block I'll leave this one Neil Diamond - "Song Sung Blue" Song sung blue Everybody knows one Song sung blue Every garden grows one Me and you are subject to the blues now and then But when you take the blues and make a song You sing them out again Sing them out again Song sung blue Weeping like a willow Song sung blue Sleeping on my pillow Funny thing, but you can sing it with a cry in your voice And before you know, it get to feeling good You simply got no choice To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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I haven’t got points for blogs in awhile. Guess I I posted to much already
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I haven’t got points for blogs in awhile. Guess I I posted to much already reach me in my blog titled private mail
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There have been times that I've been a paying member, and there are times that I'm not... It all kind of depends on what I'm looking for at that moment. I can't speak for every blogger out there, but I do like reading through my comments, seeing different points of view on subjects, and getting differing opinions on things. There have been times when my eyes were opened to a new point of view.
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I tried doing a blog for years. I received extremely little interaction, so I deleted it. I just have one or 2 posts on my current one ( I think). As a paying member I could care less about points, but those who comment just to get points are simply Assholes! At least have something to contribute. Yours is actually the only blog I read! LOL I've been a little busy lately so not on much other than to check that I don't have any messages. Try not to let the wankers get ya down Just be you & delete the haters and spam.
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oh boy is this what this site has been reduced too
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I like the way you think.... This is my real estate, I may start doing the DELETE and BAN. Thank you for sharing your philosophy.
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Like the post and the information. I personally have found some blogs that I like to follow for the content not just to get points. Some have some great information and it would be enjoyable to strike up conversation but of course those are the ones that are most followed so their time is limited
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Never realized you got points for commenting...And then again WHY???
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Points stay for those chessy comments and, Fuck Mates is in lets get what we can get mode, Yet We are still here. lol Just being a little nostalgic, Remember when we could talk and post freely???
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I tried doing a blog for years. I received extremely little interaction, so I deleted it. I just have one or 2 posts on my current one ( I think). As a paying member I could care less about points, but those who comment just to get points are simply Assholes! At least have something to contribute. Yours is actually the only blog I read! LOL I've been a little busy lately so not on much other than to check that I don't have any messages. Try not to let the wankers get ya down Just be you & delete the haters and spam.
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desperate people do desperate things at the expense of others. however, there are ways to keep it classy; a little thoughtful. unfortunately, this site doesn't necessarily cater to classy.
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If a person's comments are not on point I just delete them.
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Funny, I read plenty of blogs but only comment on the ones that are relevant or that I feel I have something to offer..... Yes, there are plenty of fucktards on Fuck Mates
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Funny, I read plenty of blogs but only comment on the ones that are relevant or that I feel I have something to offer..... Yes, there are plenty of fucktards on Fuck Mates
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If a person's comments are not on point I just delete them. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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desperate people do desperate things at the expense of others. however, there are ways to keep it classy; a little thoughtful. unfortunately, this site doesn't necessarily cater to classy.
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I admit, I am a paying customer, thus I could care less about points (even though they can come in handy on occasion). As far as members making posts just to get points? Well, those are pretty obvious. I tend to avoid them and seek out the heart-felt blogs. Also there's no reason to quote the whole blog.. imagine what this would look like if every commenter quoted the whole thing like you have. Use some sense. At least the points bloggers know they aren't contributing anything worthwhile. Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers
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Points stay for those chessy comments and, Fuck Mates is in lets get what we can get mode, Yet We are still here. lol Just being a little nostalgic, Remember when we could talk and post freely???
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1/19/2020 6:30 am |
Never realized you got points for commenting...And then again WHY???
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Like the post and the information. I personally have found some blogs that I like to follow for the content not just to get points. Some have some great information and it would be enjoyable to strike up conversation but of course those are the ones that are most followed so their time is limited
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1/19/2020 5:52 am |
oh boy is this what this site has been reduced too
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Yes, it is getting tiresome, I delete them, I don't suppose it takes their points away though
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Yes, it is getting tiresome, I delete them, I don't suppose it takes their points away though
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Just leaving a comment to get points..... Look, I get it. You're pissed off! Everything on here is changing and you don't want to have to pay money for what you think will be an effortless hookup. But, here's the thing.... A lot of people on here use their blog as a social outlet, a way to meet new friends, and in a lot of cases, as an emotional outlet to express the secrets they can't reveal in 'real life'. While I know that we are all guaranteed the right to freedom of speech, how about we not flash that "I'm an uncaring Douche Bag" badge by stating 'I'm only here to get points' and maybe, just maybe, actually read a little of the post and state something worthwhile. Death in the family? I'd much prefer 'wow, that sucks' to a 3 sentence diatribe on why Fuck Mates is fucked and the points system blows. Whatever point you are trying to make is lost by doing this. You are not bitching to the right people. One last thing for all you points earners out there.... There is a limit to how many points you can earn. What will be your back up plan when you have met that limit? As far as members making posts just to get points? Well, those are pretty obvious. I tend to avoid them and seek out the heart-felt blogs.
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yes I agree site was good years ago fakes and scams have taken over and seems they don't address the problem just charge all so less work o there end and hurts those here for real and pleasurable hope dreams and reality that there is good out there
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yes I agree site was good years ago fakes and scams have taken over and seems they don't address the problem just charge all so less work o there end and hurts those here for real and pleasurable hope dreams and reality that there is good out there
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Yes, that is the case.
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Quite. The only things on this site worth a candle are (some of) the blogs and some folk in chat. IM never seems to work and there are no peolple close to me here or back at home to make a meet possible. The site does provide some interesting stuff for the amateur psychologist though!
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Great post, and you're right... there does seem to be a lot of "Douche-bagery" going on. I guess we just have to have to take it with a grain of salt. ~"The Dude Abides"
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Yes, that is the case.
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1/19/2020 5:19 am |
Great post, and you're right... there does seem to be a lot of "Douche-bagery" going on. I guess we just have to have to take it with a grain of salt. ~"The Dude Abides"
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Quite. The only things on this site worth a candle are (some of) the blogs and some folk in chat. IM never seems to work and there are no peolple close to me here or back at home to make a meet possible. The site does provide some interesting stuff for the amateur psychologist though!
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Just leaving a comment to get points..... Look, I get it. You're pissed off! Everything on here is changing and you don't want to have to pay money for what you think will be an effortless hookup. But, here's the thing.... A lot of people on here use their blog as a social outlet, a way to meet new friends, and in a lot of cases, as an emotional outlet to express the secrets they can't reveal in 'real life'. While I know that we are all guaranteed the right to freedom of speech, how about we not flash that "I'm an uncaring Douche Bag" badge by stating 'I'm only here to get points' and maybe, just maybe, actually read a little of the post and state something worthwhile. Death in the family? I'd much prefer 'wow, that sucks' to a 3 sentence diatribe on why Fuck Mates is fucked and the points system blows. Whatever point you are trying to make is lost by doing this. You are not bitching to the right people. One last thing for all you points earners out there.... There is a limit to how many points you can earn. What will be your back up plan when you have met that limit?
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