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Notaname99 64M  
568 posts
9/10/2019 11:48 am

Here is a short list. I am sure others have much more.
First would be the disappearing words in the blogs. It is like trying to read swiss cheese.
Second would be the fake flirts the system puts out. I do not need it, and find it more annoying than anything.
Third, there used to be a filter on the advanced search for last log in. They apparently do not want you to know that many of the profiles are no longer active. Has the membership dropped that much?


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/10/2019 12:15 pm

The blog glitches are really annoying for sure.
I find this site to be an amusing distraction that let's me get my "perv" on... 😂
I've accumulated enough points to periodically go GOLD... then I get bored.
I imagine... if I wasn't meeting people here or having fun, I'd leave and go elsewhere.
Is there another site that gives you the priveledges of blogging, chatting and exchanging pics for $7.94 a month or for free?


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
9/10/2019 12:40 pm

I am sorry my friend that the site did this to you. I honestly thought you did the "ICEBREAKER" if the ladies just add a sentence or two to their icebreakers each year they extend them for a year or two. If you need any points to get your gold back please let me know..

As for the site, the past week or so I have had to double check my blogs to make sure they are not deleting my pictures I post as it's so frustrating not only for me but to my watchers to find them missing. So many other things that fucking annoy me about this site, but it's not going to do any good to bitch about them as they are always TRYING TO UPGRADE, when all it does IS MAKE IT WORSE!!!

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/10/2019 12:46 pm

Yeah... there's a trick to that...
Ya go GOLD for a month.... then wait for the emails from A F F...
They'll remind you to renew.
Then they'll offer you 50% off the regular membership. It's a waiting game for that second email. 😶
But yeah...


berniek60 67M

9/10/2019 12:47 pm

I do not have a blog, but enjoy following/reading them.
Gripes and bitches, the absents of words in the blogs and fake flirts.


GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
9/10/2019 1:19 pm

I wouldn't want to 'hijack' your blog with my personal feelings of the site of late but I will leave two comments.

1) Standard members have never been able to post pics/memes etc in the comments. Not even the person who originally wrote the post. Only in the main blog may they post up to ten pics. (I wonder how some of those who post frequently can post more than ten pics.... )

2) My BIGGEST pet peeve with the site is this. When I actually 'pay' for the privilege of being a member, all I need is a valid credit card, which they will gladly renew. However..... IF I'd like to use my accumulated points to upgrade my membership.... well then I need three pieces of ID, preferably one with a photo, someone to vouch or verify who I am. Blood and stool sample.... are you getting my point? *frustrated*


easyrider4008 67M
2562 posts
9/10/2019 1:41 pm

You have hit the nail on the head, I was gold for awhile but things don't work as they should and others have told me the same. I think they should charge one and all, a more realistic rate and fix the bits that don't work.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/10/2019 1:42 pm

The biggest headache is how blogs are butchered. Now it seems it's not only current posts but goes back to prior ones that previously were unaffected.

I have never paid for Gold membership and sure as heck would never provide a credit card or other personal information.Have heard too many stories of unauthorized 'renewals' being processed. I will see what happens when my current membership expires. I certainly have enough points to renew on an ad hoc basis or test out what it's like to be a 'standard' member.


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
9/10/2019 1:54 pm

1) I hate how it counts as a view if you read someone's blog or your mouse cursor goes over a picture or if you check your Viewed Me list.

2) I hate not being able to filter who can message me or flirt with me.

3) I hate that I have no way to remove myself from others' hotlists.

4) I hate that there have been a couple of comments on my profile that won't stay deleted no matter how many times I click their Delete buttons. For that matter, I should be able to disable people from commenting on my photo.

5) I hate that words get deleted from your blog posts. What's wrong with the word "that" such that it gets deleted? I can understand the "logic" that removes numbers and the word "son" from profiles, although it's really shitting coding if the script can't check that "son" doesn't have a space before the "s". But "that" ? What the hell?


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
9/10/2019 2:31 pm

GhostofH has it all correct: I am not giving a copy of my license, passports or anythin else to get gold or VIP. This places has more holes that a sieve and not all the site hijackings have been reported!!
I will follow this comment with a blog post of my own : I REALLY DID SEND a Snail Mail letter to Various, Inc. that contained all the bitching that I copied and pasted from unhappy members I have gotten email responses- none of them are satisfactory and I am pursuing the issues further- email and site support do NOTHING

(Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
9/10/2019 2:36 pm

The minor glitches don't bother me much since most have work arounds. My 3 primary reasons for not paying RE:
1) too few local women to be worth the price.
2) their data security is mediocre at best so giving my card and personal data would be pretty stupid.
3) their lack of transparency to #2 and lack of response to the variety of issues the site has.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


LordMandrakeJB 67M  
666 posts
9/10/2019 2:39 pm

OMG! Where do I begin???? When I joined Fuck Mates in 2004, it was a great site. Standards were allowed two emails a day and limited profile reads (enough to tease you into Silver or Gold membership) Flirts came from real people and never tossed in there by a random act of machine. Everybody could IM in a system that actually worked, and you could watch one cam at a time, if you were in the mood to. It seems that when they sold out to Playboy, it started going downhill to the practically useless POS it has become today. IM hasn't worked for me in over 4 years. I get 10 -12 flirts a day from 19-30year olds that aren't even in this continent. For a while, I was doing some checking. 90% of those had profiles not available. 8% never sent the flirt. And 1% hadn't been online in over a year! How the hell do you flirt if you are not on?????? Don't get me started on CAM girls... One thing to say, if you are camming for the money, GO TO A FRACKING CAM SITE!!!!

Fuck Mates is for "Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now", not for "a lifetime partner", "a husband", a 20 year old looking for her "last love", or (and I loved this one) "a Christian man who will love me only forsaking all others". On a sex site???

Blogs: I've deleted so many of my blogs because the auto grammar/auto edit machine was programmed by a group suffering from ID 10 T! I've edited my current two blog entries at least 4 times. I know what words were deleted every time and am going to make a blog with only those words and watch the fun...

The list could go on and on and on...

Other than that, Fuck Mates is great! (And NO! I couldn't type that last line with a straight face)

If this gets chopped to shit, email me and I'll send it to you. I'm saving a copy as I typed it up in word. hahaha


Imthatgirl1122 42F
1835 posts
9/10/2019 2:43 pm

The glitches on the blogs. And also my point never seems to increase no matter how i blog comment and add pics. I email them.. no response


stringtime666 62M
1128 posts
9/10/2019 3:12 pm

nice to hear that there is such a preference for women. There are no such things with us men, so we do not have such a problem

Lust was zu schreiben? [post Privater Briefkasten Privat Mailbox (private Mailbox)


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
9/10/2019 4:38 pm

It is happening to all the females on this site wanting us to upgrade to gold. Your going to send an email out and someone will not be able to open it. Some photos will not be uploaded and it goes on. I have not paid for mine either and I don’t plan too. Keep us posted what you find out. Hugs V

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
9/10/2019 7:05 pm

That they let guys over fifty join!

Using more than all the road!


pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
9/10/2019 7:09 pm

So many glitches and other issues are eroding the fun quickly. 😱 I hope you get the job. 🍀

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


scoupe42 60M

9/10/2019 7:40 pm

This site has it's flaws!


kmac500td 56M
110 posts
9/10/2019 7:51 pm

it would take to long for all the fucked up shit on this pathetic site!!!!sorry u lost ur gold i feel u i was on there other site ALT.com they stripped me of gold and about 80% of everyone on that site i moved on and deleted and getting ready to do the same on this shit site!


Yours_4A_knight 59M

9/10/2019 8:56 pm

My biggest peeve is that in spite of all the technical and rules issues, is that when I attempt to contact a woman who lives close enough for me to actually meet and have a conversation I invariably encounter one of two things, no response or acknowledgement that I even tried, or a phishing scheme where they require enough information for identity theft to be willing to meet in person and that is not happening

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
9/10/2019 9:03 pm

Hi Joy

thanks for taking me further

it's been fun while it lasted

reminded me of this

Hayes Carll - "Good While It Lasted"

I smoked my last cigarette
I drank my last drop
Quit doing all the things
That I swore I'd never stop
I changed my direction
Sang a different tune
Gave up all those childish ways
That made me old too soon
Things were going good for a while
I tried to straighten out the crooked road that I was on
It was good while it lasted
But it didn't last too long

To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog:

Good luck!!!


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
9/11/2019 3:32 am

While every site similar to this has their own list of irksome quirks..

1-standard male members have so few incentives to earn points and such without becoming a gold member(silver members from way way back in the day)
2-bots and scammers abound mercilessly
3-email scams and limitations unless you"re Gold
4-people trying to be less than themselves and more about hurry up and fuck
5-----
6------
7-------

I think you get the picture...…..

moving on

The Hubby

ps. fetlife dot com


NoBreeches 67M
190 posts
9/11/2019 2:38 pm

I pay with a money order.
You can find the details in the "alternative payment options" in the Help section.
You can print out the newel form or enclose a note with your screen name and email.


luv2suk1966 63M/57F
1927 posts
9/11/2019 4:46 pm

I have over 22,000 points right now, and I can't do Jack Shit!

Have a great day, and be nice to one another.


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
9/12/2019 12:57 am

Never a dull day on the premises my lady , indeed !

As for myself , having been here for 6-7 years as a standard member,
and my main gripe being not being able to pay through a safe platform,
I don't see my status changing in the near future , with all the glitches and
flaws pestering it

Cheers, and take deep braths Sparkles

P


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