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bitchkitty2017 71F

2/14/2019 11:53 am

lol do I report fake profiles on here to the site..? I only block the rude aggressive assholes that don't know how to properly approach a woman..don't care if they are fake or not and I don't know if they are , not all fake profiles are perfectly done seemingly fake by the way they are typed just some males are more articulate than others...my two cents.


charlesmartel0 59M
173 posts
2/14/2019 12:21 pm

I take the Popeye approach "I yam what I yam". I don't say everything, but I don't hold it back in conversation. I'm straightforward with what I'm looking for, but there's some flexibility. I am looking younger; it's just a taste thing. Not "barely legal", though, and if she calls me daddy it's a good way to get cut off. However, I have been known to entertain possibilities up to my own age group.

I realize almost all in the 30± age range are fakes and frauds. I just expect it and don't feel bad disqualifying them. The nerve of some of them, though. I had one suggest I should interact with myself in a sexually abusive manner, when I refused to send her a gift card. And we'd been having such a pleasant conversation. I guess she just didn't have the patience for the long con.

I do ramble sometimes. I don't know if my profile seems good at all, never mind too good, but it is true. Everything in it is literally true except I adjust my birthdate by a few days to track my data in case it shows up somewhere else. I've also always insisted on having myself well and truly single before starting up somewhere else. It's only fair. Unless you're jealous of my cats, I have no attachments. I'm unfailingly polite in my introduction. Until a girl is in my possession as my property, she is entitled to the same courtesy as any fine lady.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/14/2019 12:25 pm

Hmmm.. Interesting... I haven't looked at my own profile in months.. I have no idea how it reads or what impression I'm giving off.. Good tip.....
When I look at other's profiles I kinda skim through it, unless something catches my eye. And then I'll go through it more slowly.... 👁️😉


big54al 69M
2259 posts
2/14/2019 1:03 pm

Maybe the guys are in hiding this week because they have to stay close to their significant other? Then next week they can sneak out again?


charlesmartel0 59M
173 posts
2/14/2019 1:19 pm

Heh not inclined to go down to 20, just 30±, but like I've said, I'll go mid 50s if things seem interesting. Not that I blame you for skepticism. I make no presumptions on the profiles I read. 20 would be younger than my offspring. I'm not sure how weird that would be; he'd just call me a pervert again.


rm_WordsWolf 57M
311 posts
2/16/2019 11:43 pm

I so much wanted to respond to this post - I love how you approach these quandaries, but I can't seem to write just a sentence or two! In a way, we're on a boat we don't know how to get off of. Many of us are in similar boats. Many are unhappy in their situations, and many of us judge others - married but looking, for example. That's why I'm not 'looking', but I am looking for conversation, sounding boards, ideas, passions, etc. In defense of..., well - myself, since I'm the only one I can speak for, not all men are looking for younger, perfect women. In fact, I find imperfection to be the only true perfection. As a crafts-person, I hate crafts made so well that they might as well have been made by a laser cutter or CnC machine... people too. I love the story behind a real person. I just wanted to lend moral support for the fact that if I'm out here, I'm sure I'm not the only one looking for a compatible person, not a perfect embodiment of what we've been told is the perfect body of our time.

Cheers!
WW


rm_WordsWolf 57M
311 posts
2/17/2019 8:28 pm

I get that, and I hate it too... those assumptions that are too common. I wish I had an answer. I've never wanted to get involved in the party scene, which pretty much means my chances of experiencing unencumbered, rewarding MFM or FMF or whatever experiences, are next to zero. I keep thinking there has to be a place where curious people go to try to find people to explore with. I don't want to be among lots of people who are in the life-style - I want to learn, experience, explore with someone like me, new to it, clumsy,etc. Wishing you luck in your search, and hoping for luck in mine too!
WW


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